If a man left a women he loves but cant bring himself to loving and staying with her, so leaves her...pls rea?

When a man or a woman for that matter, jumps from one relationship to another they are always comparing them because they don't know what they have or what they did have until it's too late. The thing is that they aren't looking for a person to love, they are looking for a way to forget.

Your question ignores facts. First, a guy doesn't just leave a woman for another woman. The guy first begins a relationship with a different woman. That isn't a mistake, it's deliberate. Then, he deliberately leaves for the new woman. Again, not a mistake, but a deliberate decision. It's called being unfaithful. So the situation is- A guy fools around behind his partner's back, and leaves her for a different honey. Why should she then care how he feels about leaving? He's gone- and good riddance.

The same thing happened to me. My 1st marriage went kinda like that. He left one morning, and i didn't see him for three months. I went and filed for divorce after about a month with not knowing what was going on. I mean what else can a person do. Only to tell you when our divorce was final. He came by my house about 8 months after the divorce to tell me that he still Loved me, and always would, but their was things in life that i would just not understand. At that time it really bothered me i stilled could not understand why we got a divorce.

Then about 1year and half years later he called my house 1 night, and didn't leave a messsage, but i seen his name and # on the caller Id. Of course, i just had to call to find out why he would be calling me. I thought it had been a very long time. Why! would he be calling me. This is how it went he answered the phone. He Said Hello! i said why are you calling my house? Then what happen next really blew my mind. I heard a baby crying in the background. I said i hear a baby he said yes you do. Who's baby is it? And guess what everyone? He left me for the other woman that was carrying his child. I can say in the end he made the better choice of staying with her.

Human brain is a very misterious marvel. Why couldn't a MAN (gay or not) naturally fall in love with a WOMAN?? Come on, if the human brain is capable of very weird things like aberrations such as sexual perversion, fetishism, and many other unnatural things, why wouldn't be possible for a gay to fall in love with a woman?? Of course he can!!

Probably.

But if he loved her as much as he says he does, he wouldn't have left her in the first place.

And I'm hoping that she has enough self-respect to ditch his a** for leaving her in the first place. 'She' deserves better. Much better.

It ain't love bud. She was obviously better than what you wound up with, but being better doesn't mean it was love.

Love is not wanting anyone else, so you wouldn't have left her.

That up to that woman who have been dump will she take him back or not or maybe she still have feeling for him to take him back forgives but not forget..i don't know if she would do that sometime she could just move on or him...

Sure he would think of her and have regrets.

It's called lying in the bed you've made.

It stinks, but consider it a lesson in life. Now you really know what the consequence of your actions.

Because she loves him and cares for him does not mean is going to me mutual. If he left her, obviously has stronger feelings for the other woman unless of course he finds out different later on.

nope. but if he was treated like $hit, he'd never ever forget her and will always want her.

that's just how it is with some losers.