he left me to get married to another girl.when i had left he wanted a reason, should i now ask for the same?

I think it's time to move on. He is with someone else - that should be all the closure you need.

You left him and he has moved on.

The only reason I can see you dwelling on this is because you want him back.

Even if you could go back it will never be the same. He will never trust you to stay and you will never trust him to be faithful.

Go make a life of your own, don't get him to cheat on her with you or play games. Go find someone else.

Okay so wait he got engaged to someone else while he was with you? I dated a guy once for over three years. And we both saw the break up coming and it was hard for both of us but we talked it out. We saw where both sides were coming from and we tried to do the whole friends thing after wards. In a way it made letting go easier but at the same time just as hard. because I still saw and talked to him but I was only his friend instead of his girlfriend. But I guess it depends on where you stand with the relationship. Keep in mind if you want to know the truth as to why he broke up with you and all of that, that you may not like the answer. Granted if he was a dick and cheated on you that might help you to get over him faster. It is hard to get over someone. If you want closure than talk to him and see if he will be honest with you. Sometimes people can surprise you. But go with your gut. I would say you already know the answer. You want to know the relationship after so many years didn't work out. If you want to know so bad than ask him. He may not tell you the truth. But do you want to go back to him or do you just want to know for future reference?Don't get hung up on it. And getting over a person takes time. I'm not talking about days here, I'm talking about months maybe longer. Make a goal to try and think less of him every day or every week and slowly that ache will fade.

the only time one really gaines closure is when they can change the outcome of something. its best to not know sometimes, because when seeking answers the other person in the relationship will often only be able to share their reasons which may be hurtful to u. all u need to know is that this person chose someone else over u, would u really take anything to heart this person has to say to u?

Just found out the real reason my husband wants a divorce today. Been pushing for the true reason for a long time, and he still beated around the bush about it. It did help me to really see things differently this time around. Don't ask if you're not truly ready to hear the answer.

you should end being a door mat and tell this guy you're performed with each and every of the bull crap. He doesn't love you. He actual needs you until eventually something extra effectual comes alongside. in case you go again to him, he will go away you again. in basic terms prepare your self for that. and how are you able to probable love someone who keeps to harm you? you should search for counceling on your low self-worth. sturdy success.

YOu already have your answer why he left you..

He wanted to marry someone else.

Why would you think you had a good relationship when you said yourself you left him and took 2 years to be honest and open enough with him to tell him why.

You're better off leaving it alone. Why go and dig up old garbage that can only lead back to more garbage?

Why bother... you'll only eat yourself up over it, and he probably won't give you an honest answer anyway. Just forget him and move on.

No. He is a loser, you do not need reasoning from a loser.