Should I confront my wife?

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the fact that you have acces to hr e mails speaks volumes here.
have a chat over some coffee. im sure you'll both be fine after words...GL...Show more

How do you know that your wife does NOT know of the 'other woman'. It's not normal for a happily married man to have another woman on the side (even for conversation), no less have naked pictures of her . . . that does put it in the realm of ' cheating'. The only reason she may have some, and actually left them in her is email is to inform you that SHE knows what you are doing and want's you to feel just as insecure as she does about your marriage....Show more

Both of you are into something that is going to screw up you marriage, your future and your relationship. Do you want that ? I suggest you delete your account and everything in it. Then approach your spouse and gently suggest she do the same thing.
If you both are into nothing more then porn that's one issue but, if you both are truly into another intimate and private affair then your both in trouble. Then the only problem she's going to have, I should say you, is if she refuses then there's more going on then meets the eye and your going to have to handle it another way, like counseling or a separation....Show more

I think you should both come clean. Cheating never helps. It gets worse in time. If you feel strongly towards each other, then leave the past and forge ahead. Believe me you will never be happy with this kind of behaviour.

Leave eachother and go your different ways, or bury the past and start afresh....Show more

Unless the two you are into swinging you might as well cut out because your marriage is going down the crapper anyway....Show more