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Should I confront my wife?
I just went into my wifes email account and found some pics of another guy naked. And it's really bugging me. But the thing is, i've been doing the same thing with another girl. So we're even except i know about hers now. So should i confront her about it, or what do you think i should do?
Well let's put out there that i've never cheated on my wife. I just email a girl states away from me just to talk to somebody different, and i never will cheat on her, meaning i'll never have sex with another person.
But i don't know if i'm mad or what, just have butterflies in my stomach and kind of down now, Cause even though i know i wont cheat, i guess i don't know about her.
And i didn't break the law, cause she gave me her email account info and password to get into it. A while ago though.
Well let's put out there that i've never cheated on my wife. I just email a girl states away from me just to talk to somebody different, and i never will cheat on her, meaning i'll never have sex with another person.
But i don't know if i'm mad or what, just have butterflies in my stomach and kind of down now, Cause even though i know i wont cheat, i guess i don't know about her.
And i didn't break the law, cause she gave me her email account info and password to get into it. A while ago though.
9 Answers
- stratm663Lv 71 decade agoFavorite Answer
the fact that you have acces to hr e mails speaks volumes here.
have a chat over some coffee. im sure you'll both be fine after words...GL
- E&LLv 71 decade ago
How do you know that your wife does NOT know of the 'other woman'. It's not normal for a happily married man to have another woman on the side (even for conversation), no less have naked pictures of her . . . that does put it in the realm of ' cheating'. The only reason she may have some, and actually left them in her is email is to inform you that SHE knows what you are doing and want's you to feel just as insecure as she does about your marriage.
- cowboydocLv 71 decade ago
Both of you are into something that is going to screw up you marriage, your future and your relationship. Do you want that ? I suggest you delete your account and everything in it. Then approach your spouse and gently suggest she do the same thing.
If you both are into nothing more then porn that's one issue but, if you both are truly into another intimate and private affair then your both in trouble. Then the only problem she's going to have, I should say you, is if she refuses then there's more going on then meets the eye and your going to have to handle it another way, like counseling or a separation.
- 1 decade ago
I think you should both come clean. Cheating never helps. It gets worse in time. If you feel strongly towards each other, then leave the past and forge ahead. Believe me you will never be happy with this kind of behaviour.
Leave eachother and go your different ways, or bury the past and start afresh.
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- ?Lv 71 decade ago
Unless the two you are into swinging you might as well cut out because your marriage is going down the crapper anyway.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
sure you should but don't forgot to mention about your daily visit to a porno site
that is called be fair before QQ about someone else
- ?Lv 71 decade ago
You have committed a criminal offense by going into her e-mail account without her consent
- 1 decade ago
I THINK YOU ARE BOTH WRONG...OBVIOUSLY SOMETHINGS MISSING IN YOUR MARRIAGE...STOP EMAILING THE OTHER WOMAN AND THEN TELL HER IF IT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER...AND IF YOUR WIFE DOESN'T FESS UP TO ANYTHING THEN...IDK WAT TO TELL YOU....THIS COULD REALLY HURT YOUR RELATIONSHIP....
