What could happen if I get back at my ex boss?

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I had horrible boss for about a year.  I got a new job in November.  In January, I went to an out-of-town event where my boss's wife was also RSVP'd on FB.  I had never met the wife before, but I saw her on the RSVP list.  I knew that his wife goes out of town without him often.
   
I found her at the event, and we hooked up later that night.  I did not tell her that I worked for her husband.  She conveniently omitted the fact that she was even married.
   
I want so badly to send an email to him saying "your wife is great in bed" and show the selfie I took proving that we met.  But I haven't done it yet, out of fear of professional retaliation, although I can't think of how he would do this.  
   
So I'm asking on here if anyone can think of something that I didn't think  of.
   
I did not break any laws, as we were 2 consenting adults, so I'm not worried about legal ramifications.  
   
I'm not worried about physical retaliation - If he tries to come and hurt me, I'm prepared for that.  
   
I'm not worried about getting fired from my current job - I work for a small company, and I told my current boss (the owner of the company) what I did, and he thought it was amazing.
   
Not worried about ruining their marriage either - The wife made the decision to cheat on her husband, so Idc if it ruins their marriage.
   
So what I'm asking is if there is anything I didn't think about.

Funnel · Answer

So it's only out of fear of retaliation? The night that it happened if she would have asked the same question to you what would really have been your answer to her?

Dr. Stephanie · Answer

What goes around comes around ! Whatever you try to do to "get back at him" will eventually, and maybe sooner rather than later, come back to haunt you in some way that you will dislike.  Let it go, and if you don't want to hear what we have to say, "spare the lectures"? Don't ask for advice.

Anonymous · Answer

That's how you do it. Her husband will find out so just enjoy while you can. Never wear condoms and don't pull out.

i + i · Answer

Your initial question was: 
"What could happen if I get back at my ex boss?" 
The answer is -- an infinite number of things.  You 
want us total strangers to makes guesses? Okay, 
but it seems rather pointless.

He could take out a hit on you... which you claim 
to be prepared for. Yeah, I bet.

He could do nothing... will you cry from the sheer 
disappointment of that (you seem childish enough 
that I think it might happen)?

Okay, this has gotten just too boring so I'll stop at 
just two guesses.

Anonymous · Answer

Is there a way you can send it to him without showing your face? Let him wonder about who she was with. Who knows?  Maybe she does this all the time and won't know which one of the guys she hooked up with sent to him.
There sure are a lot of judgmental pricks here who would rather preach to you than give you what you asked for, a simple answer. Ignore them, it's your life and they're hypocrites anyway.

Sandy · Answer

don't worry. it's only a matter of time before her husband finds out. just keep your mouth shut and play dumb. it may work out in your favor.

? · Answer

You have a lot of nerve referring to anyone else as "horrible". Yeah?
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Update: I don't care WHAT YOU'RE ASKING. I'm telling you that sleeping with another man's wife is a horrible act and that you should be ashamed of yourself. Instead of seeking advice about  whether you should attack this man's life further, you should be examining your lack of character. YOU suck, your boss was just being himself.

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