Why am I so disgusted at what my boyfriend did?

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So we were playing a drinking game one night with never have I ever. Shots every time we haven't done something. Anyone, questions is related to the craziest sex thing you've ever done. He ends up saying that he has had sex with two married men in the past. To me that is absolutely revolting, and I was abhorred. I imagine the feeling similar to that of a conservative fathers son telling him that he is gay. Just absolutely ashamed and disapppinted and disgusted. The mere thought completely ruins my mood. But why? It's not like he cheated on me. I don't know why I am so disgusted. Would anyone else be as disgusted as I am if they found out that info? How can I get over it? Idk, but its really bothering more than it probably should. We're both 19.

Hermes · Answer

Nope - what happened before me is none of my business.  I think your reaction is odd, honestly.

Hermes

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps you had too many jello shots.

Ms Clones · Answer

Oh grow up you prude. I had sex with at least 50 other trannies while married to my ex-wife even though I told her I was on business trips. 
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xxx000au · Answer

I have a saying.    If you dont want to know,  dont ask me.

I was in a similar position many years ago when my partner asked me if I thought his nieces boyfriend was cute.  I said sure is.   This was blown up into painting me as some sort of unfaithful sex crazed guy.   I had made no advances on him and had no plans to do so and even if the opportunity did come my way I would not as he was taken.   Anyway back to you. 
Why would you ask someone about something when clearly you are a prude who does not accept that some of us do things outside the square.   
If what he said is right,  it was the married men who were unfaithful,  not your friend.   In fact I would say they took advantage of him and used him for quick sex.  Its them who did wrong. 
(If you must judge the incidents.)

Dont enter into discussions seeking answers if you are not sure you will be pleased with the answers.

teri · Answer

I could never look at him the same way again.  He isn't who you thought he was, and has shown he has no morals.

Why am I so disgusted at what my boyfriend did?

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