boyfriend cheated on me? not sure what i should do?

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last week i found out my boyfriend of a year had been cheating on me for 6 months with another girl. in september him and i took a little break but we still continued to talk the entire time. me and him started officially dating again september 19th but he’d gotten into a new relationship september 11th. the girl he’d had an affair with found out about me so she threatened to tell me. i guess he got scared and told me first. he told me everything and started begging me not to leave him. he said he only had real feelings for the girl in the beginning and after that he just didn’t know how to break up with her. he begged three days straight until i finally gave in. i decided to give him another chance because i do love him and he seemed genuinely sorry. the problem is i’m still really really hurt and i have feelings of anger towards him. him cheating on me is all i can think about when we talk. he says he needs me and can’t go a day without me and that he’s cut the other girl off completely. should i leave him completely? or wait for these feelings to go away?

2018-04-02T14:12:25Z

he says he’s not the same person he was months ago and that he’ll do anything to keep me

rick · Answer

How can he cheat if you were on break??? When you do something as stupid as "take a break" this is what will happen more often than not.

Patricia · Answer

I don't know what you should do, i'm not you.

And if he was seeing someone while you were on this break you speak of, he and you were technically single.  So i don't see what the problem was with him or you doing whatever you wanted during this "break".

If he continued to see the girl after you two got back together, then i guess he did and you're going to have to make a decision.  I don't know anything about your relationship.

? · Answer

Open your eyes.  Your boyfriend is a cheat and a player.  If he really cared even a tiny bit about you he wouldn't have had a 6-month relationship with another woman.  This wasn't a one-night stand or dating while you were on a break.  He consciously chose to deceive you -- and the other woman too --, and now he is just trying to manipulate you.

Kris · Answer

Leave him.  He hasn't been faithful pretty much for a year so why is one month going to change him? Do yourself a HUGE favor and move on. Relationships shouldn't be this hard and you don't have to be with someone who hurts you like that.  You will find someone who will treat you way better than that. Don't waste your time on someone who won't appreciate you. It will be hard, but moving on is the best thing for you.

boyfriend cheated on me? not sure what i should do?

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