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Why is it?

Why is it that some people do not want someone/something, but they do not want other to have it either?

I have never understood this, whether it be exes, or job promotions, etc...

Can someone tell me the reasoning behind this, besides pure spite?

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  • 1 decade ago
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    Because people are selfish and controlling and by not wanting others to have things they think they are controlling them.

  • 1 decade ago

    That's the only reason behind it, pure spite.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    When a person has had a bad experience in the hands of someone or something, they wish that person or thing to do badly. Hence, the victim doesn't want someone else to have it, 'cos something good might happen to the person who hurt them.

    It's psychological.

  • 1 decade ago

    Because, dear, some people are just spiteful jerks. My boyfriend's ex-wife is like that. Notice I said "ex" wife. ;-)

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  • 1 decade ago

    Spite, jealousy, immaturity, selfishness...

  • 1 decade ago

    It's how most two year olds live their life. Unfortunately there are a lot of adults who live like two year olds.

  • 1 decade ago

    Human nature, some people are just selfish

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    nope, just spite

  • 1 decade ago

    they are very mean and selfish

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    or gay sex and abortions?

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