Do you think a man's ability or lack there of in bed is?

Some men never get the hang of it, some do ok, and others are superb.

No, I don't, but I do think that a large part of how "good in bed" we think someone is, has got to be influenced by how we feel about that person, and when you like, or love someone anyway, you will tend to think of that person as being good looking. So maybe it's connected that way, but to say that all good looking people are lazy and selfish in bed is not true, and not fair.

I've dated a lot of country boys,kinda rough around the edges but pretty good lookin,they did alright.My mom set me up with this one fine mutha once .He seemed ssooooo sexy and after the 3rd date we went for it.IT lasted about 3 mins and he had the smallest penis that I've ever seen.It was like getting a godiva chocolate and unwrapping it to find a generic M&M

Well I believe if you really love the person you are with.combined with romance,imagination,and mystery.you both can create the stamina,and excitement to enjoy many,many hours of passion.Me I was good before.But when I find who I am waiting for this question will never come up in her mind.She will also be very bull legged after awhile and love every minute of it.

Thats some horseShi+

I'm good looking and feeling sexy makes me more sexual and adventurous in bed. I'm a good Fu(k and I'm hot

And why would good looking guys never have to try? what is meant by that.

Besides sex is mostly mental. It's not our looks that dictate our bedroom behavior but our desires and urges.

and who says... I'd like to know who you hear saying this, are you 13 yrs old. When did this tainted information pass on to you.

That's the theory about good looking women. They both have many opportunities, so the conquest becomes the goal, not trying to become proficient and skilled. I can see how that theory would hold up

find an older guy, that has been married, or in a long relationship, if she was a good looking girl then he is your best bet...they older guys really know what they are doing, and will satisify you more often, and will cheat less, but you need to make the first move, then he will take it from there....

LOL, no way. It depends on alot of things. How they feel, how tired they are, have they been drinking? Smoking weed? Travelling? Etc. But on looks, nope.

There ARE EGOTISTICAL guys out there that think they are doing you a favor by being with you, but they are rare, and they LET YOU KNOW usually who they are.

YOU WILL KNOW IF YOU GOT SOMEONE THATS GOOD IN THE BED CAUSE U WILL FEEL SO WARM AFTER YOU DONE LET JUST SAY U WILL ROLL OVER A SMOKE A BLUNT OR SMOTHING

If he is not doing u right and lacking skill. Teach him the right stuff the works for u. Believe me he'll thank you for it.