Am I over-reacting?

Your husband is a liar.

I think your hubby sounds sneaky. I think he likes the attention therefore he has no desire to make is stop. Whether it be from someone that he does or doesnt like. The making out in your house part is just over the top for me. I understand forgive and forget but if you would have been a few minutes later would they have been having sex? And will he be doing it again somewhere else where youa re less likely to catch them? Does he still work with this person? Is she a possibility for the presents? I dont know there are too many questions surrounding this. I think you need marriage counseling to figure out what you guys can do to repair this.

Hey I have a question? I'd like to know just what it feels like to be a doormat and to be sh*t on. I'm sure you'll be able to tell me.

Because it sure seems to be that's what is occurring. listen here my dear. Bad enough your husband hasn't the respect for you and the sanctity of your home to carry on so disgracefully with another female under your roof. You can bet if you didn't come home when you did and made it say 30 minutes later you'd have found them in bed or on the florr with her legs spread and in the air and him pumping away.

But now he has the gall to bring home this stuff? That the other woman gave him? After all of that? Gee....he sure likes rubbing your nose in it doesn't he because that is exactly what is going on here. He apparently has no sense of decency towards you. That is all too plain to see.

So why confront the other woman? Why don't you just haul off and kick hubby square in the nuts? That's where you should be concentrating your anger.

Your husband is not telling your the truth. He knows who gave him the gift, and you cannot opt out of Secret Santa and still get a gift. Don't confront anyone, but your lying man. He is leading her on! He would tell her he is happily married and to leave him alone, otherwise. If she then continues, he can have her arrested for stalking, or tell H.R. to give her a warning.

lmao... thought u had him by the balls? Obviously someone else does too. For crying out loud.... Get to the bottom of it! U kno you make urself victim when say say that. He tells u what u want to hear, and that's it! That's all u want to here, right? That he doesn't kno? BS... he know's. And who's 2 say it's the same woman? Maybe he is rude to her? She's prolly c***blocking him with another chic. But.. umm hmmm, ur still focused on the first chic. Smart guy. Give em that much. Get rid of his a** now, if u kno what's best for urself!!!

If this co-worker of his is making advances towards him and giving him unwarranted gifts and basically asking him out she is harrassing him. Have him report her to the HR department or his boss. Make sure HR knows that she is making your husband uncomfortable and causing strain on his marriage and personal life in the work place. That shouldn't have to be tolerated.

First of all- he knows who gave him that stuff. Or else he'd be curious to find out instead of passive. Also, if he had a problem with this woman and her comments, he would say something about it either to her or someone else in their workplace. Just because he's rude to her when you're around doesn't mean he's rude when you aren't there. Be careful. I get the feeling he's lying to you...good luck!

Why confront her? Your husband, just by taking the gift, is sending out signals that he may be available. He is a cheater, a liar and an asshole and you need to go find someone who respects you.

Confront the married womans husband..

Confront your husband and ask him if wants a divorce...

You are not over-reacting..

You need to straighten your husband out or get rid of him..

I vote for dumping the rat...

i'd gently say i'm no longer particular what they're speaking about. Then ask them what the crime is they're speaking about and ask how and why they imagine it replaced into me. i'd then provide them a proof on why it wasn't me. in the adventure that they nevertheless favor to believe it replaced into me, so be it, i will let them imagine incorrect, the reality will come out one way or yet another.

sounds like he's lying. he def. knows who came him the gifts. Come ON! If you're trying to cover something up, the first thing they'll do is tell a stupid lie because you caught them off guard. you deserve better!