Why is sex so unimportant to most women?

i think because most men think just pounding the girl makes her feel good.

hello? clitoris is the pleasure spot?

be good to her there and she will be good to you

I disagree with your opinion.It is wrong to say MOST woman feel sex is unimportant,and is a stereotype.Maybe the answer lies in the person trying to have sex with them. I personally feel that if a woman doesn't want sex there must be a good reason because it is an awesome activity to partake in at almost any time of the day or night.If they have no desire they should seek medical attention.You should discuss this matter with your lover and find out the scoop.I have met very few woman who don't like sex that are healthy and feel good about themselves.

I think sex is an essential part of a relationship. But I've been with a partner who periodically gave me the silent treatment; another partner would badger me about unimportant things until they wore me out. When you're with a partner who treats you with disrespect, it erodes your feelings for them, not just emotional, but physical and sexual, too. They didn't see how their actions affected me, even after I told them. I also know quite a few women who are exhausted from work, home, and children. Their partners either work and sit when they get home, or work and "help" a bit. On the other hand, I've seen women who actually think sex isn't important, which I think is cruel, since it's a strong drive that they are denying their partner. I think if your sex drive is dead, get medical help. If that doesn't do it, get mental help, and if that doesn't do it, do your partner a favor and give them a divorce.

Well let's see, up at 5 A.M. get breakfast for everyone, make sure the kids are dressed and get them to school on time. Hurray and get to work on time. Listen to customers and the boss all day. Hurray to pick up the kids after work and rush to the store for groceries, etc. get home, cook dinner, clean up after dinner, make sure the kids get their homework done/ help them with homework, make sure they get baths and into bed at a decent hour, get my bath, do laundry. What and have sex, too?

That may not be reason for ALL females, but it could be for some of them. . . . . . . . .?