This is her son, I'm 25 yrs old, I work in the music industry promoting bands. A good friend of mine is the

the drummer of a very popular band in this state. He has a g/f who I met last week. There have been many issues in the past between us as we keep attracting the same women. my g/fs will chase him and vice versa. Before we just kinda got pissed off at each other, quit talking for a while, then move on. His new g/f and I spent lots of time at the last show. He was gone acting like a rockstar. The next couple days I stayed with him & his singers house. His g/f was there too, and we really clicked. She is an amazing girl with lots to offer anyone. All he's done is ignore her. We've ended up coming onto each other a lot. I know he's using her as a sugar mama. The local music industry doesn't pay much, and she is wealthy. He wants her money, I really care about her. We talk everyday . I really want to be with her but I don't want to lose his friendship or his band as a client they are on they're way up and we are planning a tour with a national act, what to do, what to do?