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djdundalk asked in Social SciencePsychology · 1 decade ago

Are there any Guys out there who have female friends?

And who don't have an ulterior motive. Just plain friends, because I have yet to find a male friend who didn't want to have sex.

Update:

Age has nothing to do with it. How can someone be your friend get close to you know all your secrets, your thoughts and then use this to take advantage of you, I'm not trying to tar everyone with the same brush, but there must be some genuine people out there!

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  • Calm
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago
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    I do....and they are good friends too....sex is not everything in life. A good healthy and constructive conversation between friends is good for the mind!

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes. I've had many female friends without ulterior motives attached to these friendships.

    After some 20 years of knowing, I gave my female friend a hug on meeting her and then realised that it was the first time (that I could recall) of ever having touched her! And I'm quite a tactile person ~ with the 'right' people.

    Sash.

  • 1 decade ago

    The probable reason is they are immature,(you do not mention ages), you may be mixing in the wrong circles, there could be any number of reasons why they behave the way they do, look at the demographics of the situation and the answer will probably hit you like a bolt of lightening from nowhere.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have about the same number of female friends and male. they are just friends if nit came to sex it would`nt be the same, they are friends and we can talk without sex raising it`s ugly head and that's better I think.

    Source(s): some are very sexy and arrousing but its better to stay friends and be able to chat.
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  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have many girl friends. Now that I am older the instinct to want to sleep with them is not so great. As a young adult I also had many girl friends and always did want to have sex. I usually tried to respect our friendship. (usually)

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    Are u a girl? Yes I do have female friends. I don't want to have sex with them because I'm gay.

    Source(s): My social circle.
  • 1 decade ago

    I think most guys have female friends, without ulterior motives.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    I have many female friends including my ex which is just as well as we have a child together

  • 1 decade ago

    I have lots of female friends and no, I don't want to have sex with any of them. Most of them are married or have boyfriends anyway.

  • 1 decade ago

    I have a lot of "guy friends", they help me out in everyday affairs, and by being there for me.

    But my bestest friend, is my boyfriend, <Lucas>.

    lol@avatar.dmx

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