Where To Surely Get Help? What Should I Do?

Those threats are his way of controlling you. Do you have family member or friends who can help you? If you have no money whatsoever go to a Legal Aid office to see if you qualify for a free attorney. Otherwise, borrow money from a family member and visit a regular attorney. You will be entitled to child support, and possibly spousal support (at least temporarily). Usually the wealthier spouse winds up having to pay the attorney's fees for both.

Don't put up w/ his crap any longer, or your kids will grow up thinking his behavior and your acquiescence are normal.

Never mind writing down everything. Get help from a local abuse center. You are being abused. Mental and emotional abuse is as bad as physical. You are going to need a job, welfare help, etc. All cities, coutnties have abuse hot lines. Pull info up on the web. There is some kind of help close by. If you have no family, see if there is a church group that will help you. Get out as fast as you can. Do not stay for the sake of your child. This man is dangerous and will only hurt the child in the long run. Better one good parent than two not good parents.

I would write down everything he says...I would also get a small recorder and tape what he says....You have to understand that he will have to come with alot of evidence to support his claims and if he can't back-up what he's accusing you of then you can sue him. Don't worry about him....as long as you know that you are doing everything you need to keep you child safe and that you have your evidence to him saying things about you then you should be okay...

Some men will try to control you that way and some women fall for it...don't stand your ground and let him know you aren't that type of person and he needs to stop accusing you of that...Then as I stated tape him and also write it down. If and when you go to court you will have documented proof of him accusing you of this and he will have nothing...

Good luck

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Call the domestic abuse hotline and be ready to go. Document EVERYTHING.