Ewe, I'm not disgusted, just weirded out.?

First up, "ew" is an expression of disgust. Secondly, your question isn't a question... It's a statement with a "?" on the end.

But anyway, be honest with him. Tell him you're getting over a relationship and am not actively looking for a one, but if you like him (even just a friend), tell him that you still want to hang with him again-- just so he doesn't feel played. And who knows, as you get to know each other better, who knows-- you might find that he's a good catch.

There are no right words to tell him if he crosses the comfort line. Again, just be honest and tell him that you're not comfortable in doing that with a guy you just met. If he doesn't respect that and tries to make a move on you again or makes a fuss over it, then drop that f*cker like a rock.

Moving on is not something to be afraid of. It is a big step forward in acceptance and personal development and you'll need to do it eventually.

A couple of things to be conscious of:

~ Don't be confused and send mixed signals... Don't be saying you want him one day, then telling him you need your space to think about it the next. That's just cruel.

~ Think before you act. Take your time, there is no rush. If you don't move on from your previous relationship, it will come back to bite you in your next relationship.

~ Be honest with him.

I think that's about it.

Good luck!

Take a deep breath, dress up like no body's business and have a great time. Don't analyze it, don't think about it so much, just be yourself. Being out with friends after a breakup is hard, but use it to your advantage. Hang in there girl, and I hope you have a blast tonight

Let him know you want to take it slow. You're working on getting over a relationship. You want to be with him now, but let him know it's going to take some time.

It shouldn't matter to him who you've dated previously - he still needs to respect where your comfort zone is. Communication is key here. Let him know what's okay and what's not, *before* you get to a point where he's crossing boundaries.

i definitly think you need move to on you shouldnt be afraid to get over her it's good and healthy but maybe your not ready if you feel he wants more than you can offer i think you need to tell him straight up at the beggining of the date that you really really like him and you would love to get closer to him but you want to take it slow

I say wait and see how you feel with him. My girlfriend was a lesbian her whole life until she met me. Now she only wants to be with me, we are very much in love and are engaged. You never know what the future will bring. Forget the past. Hope this helps.

be yourself and dont try to be someone ur not