How do I tell her???!!!?

the rules of engagement are simple, you comand and conquer. So what if you have a lot to lose, You obviously have so much fun times and excitement to gain so you should only think about you and what is in it for you. I'm sure you are used to helping others and stuff, but if anything, in the state of mind you are in, these rules don't apply. Take the kitty and make it purr... jajajaja

Well just to let you know, if you tell her that you are gay and she is not interested, you may freak her out a lot and lose that friendship. Be careful about it and consider if you would rather have her as a possible girlfriend or as just a friend. Hopefully if she is a really good friend, she will be able to continue the friendship with you even if she is not interested. You could possibly just sleep on the floor or in another room if it is so hard for you. But I would personally be honest with her and tell her that you are gay. Maybe don't tell her right away that you are in love with her, but let her know that you are attracted to other girls and see where that takes you. Best of luck :)

Hmm well, do you no if she is lez or bi.

Because if she isn't then there are 3 possible things that might happen.

Firsrt of all she will be completley freak and pushes you away and cant look at you for the rest of your life.

second she will reject you but just take it like a true friend and not change her behaviour at all.

third she will change her sexuality just for you and then you two go at it all night.

I couldn't really elaborate more, seeing as I haven't met this girl. I think the safest thing to do if you dont want to risk your friendship. But I hope whatever you choose goes well.

Hope this helps! Good luck!

Jacko xox

This is a huge thing to tell one of your friends!!

you have to be prepared for her to be shocked/surprised and you must prepare yourself for that...

I think that you shouldnt make any moves until she is atleast first used to the fact that you are a lesbian.. you know give it a couple of days to sink in before you let her know of any feelings for her..

If she doesnt feel the same then dont feel rejected, it wont be anything personal, its just that for other woman its impossible to be attracted to the same sex..

Good luck!!

You should bring it up in a conversation you two are having. But its best to tell her, otherswise nothing will ever happen if you never tell her. She may reject and feel awkard or she might be into it. It depends on her though. But during the conversation u should tell her I don't want it to change our friendship but I like you and so on. So that way it would be safer to tell her and keep the friendship without making it awkard. Has she ever seemed interested in other girls? Some girls are but don't say so. So you never know but good luck!

This is a compromising situation. Are you completely sure she is heterosexual? If so, look at it this way: is telling her your true feelings, with possibility that she'll reject you and things will never be quite the same again worth your friendship with her? If she is one of your true friends and you are completely certain of her sexual orientation, I wouldn't do it. A loving friendship is something you don't come across much in a lifetime- treasure what you have. You could potentially lose it otherwise if you scare her with your proclamation of love.

You'd better tell her your special habit, but do not be so direct.

If she reject you, do not be shine, everyone can choose his own sex-orientation.

If you want a lesbian friend, why don't you go to some clubs or parties to make more friends same as you?

well you shouldn't wait much longer to tell her, though you should know first if she's a les like you or not..if u wanna tell her how u feel,u should see her mood first,if she's in a bad mood,the don't do anything yet, though if she's in an ok mood,you should go for it..yet u have to prepare for the most nervous-ing part.,you have to be mentally and emotionally ready if she'll reject u or not..better try then never u know.. x] good luck

first is she a lesbian? if so then just come out and tell her how you feel about her, if she rejects u it will hurt but try to find someone else, u know how many lesbians are out there?

You're a deuchbag. You're basically using your "friendship" so you can get close to her, when really you just want to sex her..... some friend!

Only way is to be honest with her, find out if she's ever liked girls, otherwise if you just make a move and are so willing to wreck a friendship, you;re not a friend.