If a young lady wanted to learn about grace, dignity, style, etiquette what or who would you have her study?

Grace Kelly and Diana Vreeland (former editor of Vogue magazine); also Princess Diana.

Grace and Style: I'd suggest she take dance, ballet, or fitness classes to help her look poised and fit, also keep well groomed appearance(manicure, pedicure, sassy hair Style, groomed eyebrows, etc.), exercise, read vogue magazine, dress age appropriately

Dignity: I'll tell her to study hard in school in all of her subjects and make her education her number 1 priority. Knowledge is power and builds confidence and higher self esteem which gets respect.

Etiquette: Enroll in clubs, sports and/or participate in community volunteer work or church activities to practice socail interactions. Always practice being a good listener.

Watch anything with Audrey Hepburn, and read "Things You Need to be Told" and "More Things You Need to be Told" by the Etiquette Grrls. Their version of style and etiquette is bang-on, but slighty modernized from the days of Emily Post. I have both of their books, and I absolutely love them.

Watch movies from the 30s, 40s, and 50s. It's amazing how much you can learn.

Emily Post. She's really neat.

A book about royalty and princess'.

Princess Mary!

(love her so much!!)