How can i spice things up in the bedroom for my man?

Hmm! I'm the right person to answer this question! My man and I keep things amazing by introducing new things almost every time. Sometimes we do do role-playing, sometimes we add toys like handcuffs, anal beads, whips & more, sometimes we add food like whipped cream, all types of fruits, chocolate, etc. Other times I will do a lap dance/strip tease to music just like at a club.. except he CAN TOUCH! Lol. Also, we buy edible body paints and other sexy stuff at sex shops. We keep it spicy and interesting and I know he will not go straying off because I am that confident that I am so much fun!

First, find out why he doesnt like oral. That usually bottom lines to an incident where someone was not careful and hurt his penis with their teeth.

The only way to really get anywhere is to have a very candid and frank conversation about the things you like and dont like and WHY.

Serve him a four or five course meal, and each time you have to go into the kitchen for another course, lose more clothing. Of course dessert is you with whipped creme layed out on the table.

Role play. Talk about fantasies while having sex.

Watch porn together. Visit the local adult toy shop.

Make him sit in a chair while you strip and play with yourself.

Wow...your fiance sounds like a real good Man. Just enjoy each other occasionally.

Try some massaging gel, the type that heats up a little. How about a vibrator placed behind his b**ls. Or instead of a hand job, try a t*t job (using the gel of course). Truthfully, use your imagination.

Talking dirty is pretty universal. You don't have to go out on a limb to liven things up a notch or 15. Try to take control a little, tell him to say something dirty that he is maybe too shy to initiate on his own. Tell him something that happened during the day that got you all hot and bothered and get down to business with him.

In college I dated this girl that would daydream in Math about me. She told me about it and I met her after class once. She let me inspect her and it was definitely true. We went to the parking garage and got busy right then, and it was totally hot to talk about it later too.

You can also look up some porn to get ideas from that too (for talking dirty). My wife did that and it was awesome to hear her talk like that.

go shopping together at an adult store or online. it may give you some ideas or at least get the ball rolling!they also sell naughty board games that may inspire! I bet he is just nervous to ask for what he really wants ..maybe you are too

Give him a Cleveland Steamer.

Get a cool naughty movie and relax.

Talk to each other about what you would like to try and places you would like to try. And go from there.