Sexless Marriage/Kill Female Sex Drive?

you can lure your husband to have sex with you. Woman has the tremendous capacity for that thing. you know that if you want to have sex with other person, you can easily do that. So make your husband find you attractive. do what he would normally expects from other woman.Be in less dress in bed so that his dick get erected and arouses his sexual desire. Then also if his dick doesnot get erected so you can better understand, what to do with this kind of person.I do not call him a man.

why u wat to kill your sex drive? Make good use of it.

I understand you wanting to stay inside God's will by remaining married.

Maybe you and your husband should seek counseling, either with a Pastor or a professional counselor.

He may be having a male problem that he doesn't want to admit to. Has he said he does not find you attractive? Or do you just think that because he isn't interested in sex?

Some people, especially devoutly religious people can have overwhelming feelings of guilt when they have sex. Maybe this is an issue that needs to be addressed.

I cant even begin to imagine your frustration. I dont know how much or how strong your drive is but for myself, I have had the same woman for many years, and just the sight of her turns me on and I feel a physical response almost immediately. This is an honest answer I might add, not just one to be "cute". If I didnt get enough, it would be very, very, difficult for me not to stray regardless of the rest. I really dont have an answer, but unless he has a problem himself, or he is running down his battery someplace (which is what I suspect), the only thing left is viberators. A poor substitute but nevertheless available. I also suggest some arousal preperation to make it total and complete. Zestra comes to mind and can be bought at walmart. Any device you want can be purchased over the internet.

If nothing else works.......well life is short at best.....and we were made to be sexual beings. So take it from there.

Hmm, that might be more of a persaonl choice, some people like to play with sperm, can't fig out why lol I don't think it has an effect on the sex drive itself, maybe just the enjoyment of who they are with and where he puts the sperm know what I mean? hope this helped. :)

Selective Serotonin Reuptake Inhibitors - anti-depression drugs like Zoloft, Prozac, Paxil, Celexa) all have a major side effect - they pretty much totally KILL your sex drive. I mean you will absolutely feel like not having sex at all.

If this is the route you want to go, see your physician and tell him you are depressed.

masturbate silly. to kill your sex drive is to kill a fundamental part of yourself.

i really don't think that anywhere in the bible it says you cannot play with yourself. It certainly is not one of the 10 commandments.

i am sick of these supposedly good god fearing folk who choose to see sex , passion and pleasure as sinful and that living a chaste , sexless life without desire for your spouse is what he wants. Not so, at all !!! God wants us to love our spouses body and soul, to cherish them make them happy , to go forth and multiply...which means get it on and get down to it whenever you want, and fill your woman with sperm and get some babies happening. shame on your husband and shame on those people who mis use the word of god to justify their lack of a normal sex drive , or the emotional and or physical hang ups they have in regard to sex. If he won't satisfy or even try to fullfill his wifes needs then it is he who is breaking the marriage vows you both made in gods name. hope that all helps...

I am confused by this-why would you go through all that for your husband? Is he doing anything to help you? Why should you sacrifice sex, or anything that make you happy, b/c he finds you unattractive? You say you want to stay faithful for God, but being unhappy and trying to "fix" things to please someone who isn't interested in you is lying to yourself and God. No, I dont know of any pills. Stop wasting your time and move on to someone is willing to accept you as you are.

try to make yourself in such a manner that ur hubby should start taking interest in u. Be positive. Try to find out how he is going to find u attractive, do that. Dont loose hope and dont think about such ideas.

Good luck.

Think about BJ for hubby, works for my wife. LOL.

Really there certain birth control pills that will lower your estrogen - that might help.

And buy a vibe till he comes around. Good luck

ps- i don't get guys that wont put out.

You say you are doing this for God? Do you really believe that you God put you here on earth to have to suffer the way you are? That would be a cruel God if there ever was one. I know my God is more compassionate and wants me to be happy and to enjoy life. You shoud join my church and see the light, it's wonderful here and the people are happy and fulfilled.