20 year old Husband left his 5 month old son and pregnant wife for a 15 year old. Any tips?

He is a pedophile and you should call the cops on his nasty a$$...you should also tell the girls parents.

If I were you I would divorce ASAP and make sure you get child support from him. Do you really want a pedophile around your kids?

Judging from all of your misspelled words, you not very well educated and probably don't make much money, which really puts you in tough situation. The others are correct, he is a loser and very selfish, throw him out, see if your parents will let you move back in until you can get your life straighten out. Men are great to have around to help you raise your family, but men who are just donating sperm, but not willing to help out with all of the other things that it takes to raise a family and be a daddy, aren't real men.

If you have access to his phone, pull his text messages, any photos, etc... from his records and take those to the police (may need to contact the phone company directly for some of this information). What he is doing (if he is having sex) is illegal and he should go to jail. All he is doing is messing up another girls life like he did with you. I wouldn't be too upset with the 15 year old, she just isn't old enough to understand what is going on. To her this is just like a junior high crush (by the way, where are her parents in all of this)?

Good luck, and remember to turn to your family they are going to be even more important now that you have another child on the way!

The two of you are so young and just starting out, where do you see this type of cheating behavior leading. I am totally disgusted to hear the child he was screwing was only 15 I am surprised some family member of hers has not paid your husband a little visit. I would take my baby and get the HELL away from him, he is a immature (the 15 yr proved that) lying, cheating, sleazy, low life. If you stay be prepared to put up with more of this type of crap.

You know that a 15-year-old child is being raped and you are NOT calling the cops on your pedophile husband? Wow. Just wow. It's ALL about you, isn't it.

It sounds like he really doesn't love you and that he just loves being with someone and you are replaceable to him. The hardest thing about going through my divorce was accepting that I wasn't the love of his life and that I was replaceable (and I was replaced quicker than you were) You need to be strong for your children and if you leave him, you need to just leave him and be done. Don't sit and linger with him and keep the drama going with the other girl. she knows you're there and have kids and doesn't respect your vows of matrimony so just back off her all together. It's HIS fault. He's the one who chose to be with her and she knows about you too so it's HER fault too....Hopefully you can get out of this situation and I promise you will fine love again. I married my sweetheart and he broke my heart and now I'm with another guy who treats me even better.

Sweetie i did not even have to read all you wrote...Your answer is 100% simple. Get him arrested for being a pedophile,being with a little 15 year old girl. You will get justice & full custody of your babies.Also,most importantly,you will be saving your babies from a Pedophile.Pay backs are what he is going to get everyday in prison. You sweetie will sit back & be greatful it was not your own kids,it was a 15 year old,bad enough,another child though.I'm Praying for you sweetie.

You have alot going on. First, take care of yourself and your baby. I wouldn't worry about him getting full custody since he could possibly go to jail for being with an under age minor. Don't try to deal with too much, you need to be concern about the unborn child and the 5 mo old.

Oh wow..... This is ridiculous... What can a 15 year old do for him, that you can't..... Oh no you don't need him... Go ahead and divorce him... And yes he will try to come back and run to you but you have to stay strong and not go back to him because you will end up dealing with this same BS once yall are back together.... You deserve a new man that actually cares for you and your son.... Cut him and her outta your life and watch him come crawling back.....

Find the girl's parents and tell--get the SOB for statuatory rape.

He's a deadbeat and these are the reasons people should not marry so young.

well no, the problem is that both of you are too young for what you have taken on and you are seeing now clearly that it is easy for him to simply walk away, and you cant. so you are stuck now for the rest of your adulthood with a couple kids and poverty and trouble.

where are your parents? why dont you use birth control? were you raised by wolves?

is he a dead beat? no he is a normal young guy who couldnt care less. too bad for you.