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Sex with pregnant girl. Risky?
I have been seeing this girl who is pregnant by another guy who she has never seen since she slept with him. She wants us to have sex but i am not sure as i dont know this guy and she could have caught an STI from him when they had unprotected sex. She is about 4 or 5 months gone now so would she have been tested by the hospital for this kind of stuff? Surely pregnant mothers get tested for STI's to ensure the babys health? Please can anybody provide any answers?
so it is her choice to be tested here in the UK? Maybe i should move on, i dunno i am puzzeled
NOTE TO KATHY: I only found this website today, and only signed up today so please don't say things like that when i am asking a serious question
12 Answers
- ElizabethLv 41 decade agoFavorite Answer
Here in the US, the mother gets tested early for all STIs (her first visit). As long as she hasn't caught anything since then she should have the green light to have sex.
Sex during pregnancy is okay as long as the pregnancy and the baby are healthy.
Wear a rubber anyway, just to be safe.
- 1 decade ago
Good on you for asking this question....usually guys don't give a **** about this sort of stuff. If they want to have sex with someone, then they just do. But unfortunately I cannot help you with this answer as I am not too sure myself as every country is different in the way they test for things in Pregnant women. But as others have said maybe go discretely to the doctors and ask them if they do test for STD's in Pregnant women. Why are people mean about him wanting to have sex with her, "What because she is Pregnant" and it's not his baby. Well at least he has a caring bone in his body and is wanting to know.
- mummy of 3Lv 41 decade ago
i was given blood test at 16 weeks pregnant got the result back at 20 weeks saying everything was clear, even though with same fella for 10 years they do this test on every women.
So i'd say she is ok aks has she been given the result but i would advise you use protection yourself just in case you might have something that can pass onto the baby not been mean just these things happen i would recommend both of you use protection till after the birth. and ignore smart peoples comments, sex with a pregannt women is not disgusting, i know a few girls who have got different partents while pregnant and had intercourse and are still with them lads years later. no different than women cheating getting pregnant by another lad then havin sex with there partners for the 9 months with them not knowing its not theres.
- 1 decade ago
Well im not 100 % sure if mothers get tested in the hospital but if you feel unsure you could ask a local doctor for advice and im sure the sex should not harm the baby If your careful
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- Anonymous1 decade ago
I rekon she would know if she had an sti because when you are pregnant you need to give a lot of urine samples which gets tested so they would no if there was anything wrong but she could always ask the doctor just to be sure!
- Samantha PLv 41 decade ago
in the uk you get tested for major things like hiv etc but thats only if you want to!!!! Other things like chlamidia etc are not tested for in pregnancy this is my 3rd and i never have been. I would say that if you do decide to have sex then wear a condom just incase hun xx Hope this helps
EDIT EDIT
As for other peoples comments on here......remember it is your choice. If you decide to go out with her and bring up the baby then thats your business if you dont intend on that i would forget about sex and move on... good luck
- 1 decade ago
Every pregnant woman here (in the US) gets tested for STD's with every pregnancy. It's one of the first things they do
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Im pretty sure they get tested yes. Just make sure you wear protection to be certain.
- Hawkeye85Lv 71 decade ago
I would be care full not only form STD but her whole attitude, she is pregnant and obviously she has no morals, standards or self respect so why would you want anything to do with her. You may find that if you have a relationship with her you do not want to end up holding the baby.
Why not set your sights higher and go for a more classy type of woman.
- 1 decade ago
Take her to a dr to get tested, ick man your having sex with a girl who's preggo, and not even with your baby.