Can a judge order a 19 year old to sign and release medical records to a non custodial parent?

There is something wrong here. Was this hearing ex parte? Were you ro your son not served? What did he tell the court the reason for the request? Was this none before he was 18?

Regardless, you need to hire an attorney to draft and motion to reconsider and state all of your concerns and teh past behavior of the father. If your son is afraid of his father, the court need to know this information.

OR you can wait until the court sends a warrant for your son , generally called a "show cause" order , ordering your son to appear before the court and atate why he has not complied with the court's order. But if the judge has low telrence for people that disobey his orders, your son better bring his toothbrush.

Consult and hire an attorney; and asks that your attorney fees be paid for my your ex husband. I can think of no earthly reason a court should force a adult child to reveal anything to a parent. If the don't have a good relationship, and the child voluntarily provides grades etc to parents, then that is no buisiness of the courts. I assume he must be court ordered to pay for his colleg and that is why he thought he should have acess. BUT, if the father is abusive, all bets are

This happened to me..judges can do such things.

uh...every day in courts judges order people to do things they don't like.

It's called a legal system.