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Men answering questions in the Pregnancy Section?

Does anyone else get annoyed when men answer questions in here? I have seen so many answers from men who have NO idea what pregnancy is like and they're trying to tell US how it's supposed to go and what is normal and what is not. Totally annoying. I thumbs down mostly every man who answers in this section (unless they actually have a good answer... which is very rare).

Example:

The question was Can you bleed during pregnancy?

And a man answered and said "You still get a normal period during your whole pregnancy".

FIrst of all, how would a man know.. secondly, you don't get a normal period when you're pregnant.. if you do happen to bleed it's not a real period and it's not normal!

Update:

I'm not talking about male doctors, people... I'm talking about the men on here who OBVIOUSLY have no idea when they're talking about.

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  • dcslmt
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    As long as they're giving legitimate answers, and not jokes, I don't see the problem. My husband learned a LOT during my pregnancy - he would be a wealth of knowledge on hyperemesis and placenta previa. Just because they're men doesn't mean they don't know anything.

  • 1 decade ago

    And yet people assume that women know just as much who have never been pregnant - such as midwives or health visitors?

    Granted, they can't describe the feelings of a kick, or the pain of contractions, but some men are knowledgable in pregnancy related issues. I never bled during pregnancy, but I do know a lot about it. Does that mean I can't answer because I haven't personally experienced it? Can I warn someone about the symptoms of pre-eclampsia when I never had it?

    I think you're being more than a little unfair. If it's facts they're offering, then they can be just as accurate. It's feelings and opinions they're not so great on. just because that one man got it wrong doesn't mean it's because he's male - I'v heard plenty of women - nay - MOTHERS saying the exact same thing.

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree with you for the most part. Guys really have no business in the pregnancy section. But sometimes a question calls for a mans input. Like Does my husband think I'm not attractive since I became pregnant? Most guys could answer that better than any woman could. I feel if they are going to be here they should be mature and have helpful information.

  • 1 decade ago

    I mostly agree. But, those types of answers annoy me, no matter if it's from a man or woman. Plus, some guys actually do know a lot about pregnancy and babies..my husband being one of them. He's read everything I've read (he's even read my breastfeeding book..LOL) and I trust his advice over a lot of the advice I see here.

    I think things just annoys us more when we're pregnant. Since it's my second pregnancy, I can answer questions about labor and delivery. And it sometimes annoys me when I see women who are pregnant with their first criticizing someone about their birth plan or acting like they know what *they're* talking about....LOL.

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  • Qwerty
    Lv 6
    1 decade ago

    I've seen some quite good answers from men actually and been surprised at their knowledge in pregnancy, but obviously there are going to be morons that come in and talk rubbish, it's expected on a forum like this.

  • 1 decade ago

    it don't always get annoyed unless they give an idiot answer. my husband is currently surviving pregnancy #3 with me and he knows some stuff. i guess he secretly reads baby books or pays attention to me & the doctor! however, unless a man is a medical professional or jim bob duggar, i doubt he has enough seeds of knowledge to be spreading it all over a pregnancy board.

  • 1 decade ago

    I agree unless its someone with actually training!! and works in the field!! and even then they just read it from a book!! sorry haha I'm hormonal sick of males doctors telling me if i have this i need to go to the hospital and you ask what it feels like and look at you like you are crazy!!!

    Source(s): 18w
  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    There are quite a few men that are obgyns and deliver babies for a living. You trust your child's life with those men so why can't a few answer questions in the pregnancy section. You don't know their background maybe they are in the profession or were very involved in their wives's pregnancies. I see no problem with it.

  • 1 decade ago

    it depends, my husband knows alot now after me relling him endless things with both pregnancies, I know for a fact he knows more then some of the women ive seen reply,lol He doesnt come on though, he isnt into message boards, if they have read an article and are stating what they read, then I could care less

  • 030809
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    I totally agree. I don't like when men answer either because usually its an immature answer and they do not know what they are talking about.

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