Why would a married woman want to hang out at a bar with single friends?

As a reformed bar fly, I can tell you I've seen a lot of women going to bars who are married and they are not there to socialize with friends and just drink - they want to be checked out by men and hit on in the biggest way and it's just sad how pathetic they are.

Any married women who go to bars without their husbands are most likely ready and willing to cheat.

Married With Single Friends

A bar is no place for a married women to hang out with friend or with out friends there are many other things to do that is less risky and make your spouse feel better . How many women love thir husbands if u do then do what is right you took your vows uphold them and your marriage will be much better . If you want to acted single don't get married stop hurting a good man find one that goes to bars to then at lest your both at the same level ..

Some people don't like going to bars. If this friend of hers really wants to hang out with her, she'd suggest something like brunch or an art museum. If the married woman wants to go, I don't think it would be a problem every once in a while. But, her friend doesn't sound like much of a friend if she's getting mad at her because she'd rather not go to bars.

Hold on now. I am happily married for over 22 years. I have gone 'out' numerous times in the past with my younger and single female friends.

I love music and dance. I wear my wedding band and enjoy watching men try to pick up my friends.

Every so often I will get hit on. I take care of it. Since I am always with women 15 to 20 years younger than me we are in a 'young' club.

So, uh, not too many 30 year old men are interested in hitting on a, well, 'older (!!!) woman.

Just because a person is married doesn't mean they can't participate in activities with their friends. If most of the married persons friends are single and like to go to bars, why should the married person be excluded?

I go out with my friends but that doesn't mean I am pretending to be single or want to be single. People need to get out and just have some fun and socialize. The friend has a different lifestyle and just wants to spend time with her friend. Maybe somebody should loosen the leash and let the other person breath so they don't leave them for suffocating them.

I've been married for 10 years and have 2 children. I often go to the bars/clubs with my girlfriends so I can get dressed up and go dancing.

I'm a wife/mother but need a girls night out sometimes, and I love the glamorous life.

Just because a woman is married doesn't mean her life is over. she should still be able to go out and enjoy herself. It's called "ME" time. If the woman is happily married then there should be no questions if she will remain faithful (if that's a fear). And just because she is married doesnt mean she should have to give up her single friends.

When a woman gets married she doesn't have to automatically ditch all her single friends. If she is happily married then her husband probably has enough trust in her that she will not do anything bad.