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online dating how to tell your contacts that you have met some one else?

i have recently signed up to an online dating website and have been chatting with some girls but i have met some one and i have chosen her this other girl i am due to meet face to face next week i guess my question is how and when should i tell her should i send her a message and say look i think your awsome but i have fallen for somebody else but i would like to be friends still or should i wait till we first meet? because i dont want to misslead any one any enlightenment would be very much appreciated

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  • 1 decade ago

    Michael I do believe that you should be truthful with this girl. Why even bother to meet with her face to face if you feel you have fallen for someone else ? You don't have to feel bad about this, it is just the truth,and to be honest, all relationships should be based on truth, respect and love. Respect her by telling her the truth, gently though. I believe she will appreciate the truth. You ask if you should tell her in person, I don't think that is such a good idea, she might be meeting you with intentions of forming a relationship down the road. The girl you have fallen for may find it double playing if you were to go meet this online girl. Michael it is ok to seek love, just remember on thing honey, love God first and foremost, love yourself remembering you are Gods creation, live life with joy, be positive, and magical things will happen for you. Thoughts are things. I wish you blessings to overflow. I pray this may help you.

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  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    It sounds like this guy is only in it for sex. He gets what he wants then tries to make it seem like it's your fault as to why he doesn't want to persue you anymore. He will be lovely and 'genuine' when he's giving you the wind up, but once the deed is done he will run like the wind. Move on, find another guy. Don't contact this guy again and if he contacts you, tell him that you are after someone who is more stable and trustworthy. You offered him your heart and he sampled it, took advantage of it and threw it back in your face. You deserve better.

  • 1 decade ago

    my man..reward=patience. for you at the moment, opportunities presents itself. so take it slow & steady, assess and only then react. do go tell her you've met somebody else yet. that's the point. people may call us selfish/jerk/whatevertheywanttocallus, we don't give a damn because it's not their life we're living. we have to decide what's best for us and people surrounding us (family, friends, colleagues, etc).

  • 1 decade ago

    Tell her that you think it would be best to stay friends. That you think she is amazing and how you want to be friends because of that and you don't want dating to tear that apart. Don't mention the other girl it'll damage her self esteem.

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  • 1 decade ago

    Be honest, direct, and polite. Women appreciate that.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    be honest...it's kelw

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