How to move on from break up?

I always find that the best thing to do to make yourself feel better and get over an ex is to sleep with someone else. It helps remind you that they were not your only option, that you have something that other people want and of course it feels lovely.

Now having said that, Hi, my name's Jay...

Delete everything of them, the whole lot. New relationship new start with nothing hanging in the background. If it means getting a new phone number or even back tracking and wiping out where you've been since the break up then thats what it takes. Don't leave any loopholes for them to think it's possible or ok to contact you. I get rid of all pics emails texts phone numbers then start back tracking. So far to this present electronic age of emails and mobiles no ex has ever been able to contact me again.

Me and my boyfriend pretty much broke up for the same reason! He was always lying to me constantly and i always got sucked into them! I now feel like an idiot but hey what can you do? all you can do is learn from your past & mistakes -- and to move on, i went on a huge shopping spree, saved my money and just went crazy! If you have friends you may want to go with them, or even have a girls night. If you dont have friends, i suggest you definitely go shopping! go nuts with your money, and to be honest, it actually helped! They say money can't buy happiness, but it sure does! And think, god put you with that guy for a reason. So you could learn, now what you have to do is wait. Wait for the right guy to come along and when he does, he'll come after you, you wont have to chase him. A guy who lies is nothing but a piece of ****, so dont feel bad. He isnt anything.

You may be having withdrawal symptoms as though you were addicted to him. You may have been in a codependent relationship. No matter, you can still get past this by simply realizing that it is a chemical process that your brain has to go through to stabilize. It is the same process as grief. It is counterproductive to get angry when your mind thinks of him. Simply acknowledge that it was just a thought, then continue with productive thinking. Even counting to ten repeatedly will rest the mind and allow you to function better.

i'm sad to hear that. at least you broke up before it was too late (: there are many ways to get over a break-up. there isnt really a fullproof way of forgeting someone because something or rather will make you remember him. always keep it your mind that you broke up with him because he wasnt worthy of you. try removing all trace of him like handphone number,letters,gifts,pictures,everything that reminds you of him. keep them in a box and put them right at the top of your closet where you cant see it. next you should do it go out and have FUN! have a girls night at the club with your besties,dance the night away. or organise a adventure trip towards town. or maybe have a family vacation overseas. let your hair down and go wild. you get to live only once,why spoil it for a worthless guy?? there are many people out there who cares and are waiting to share your sorrows. who might noe. when you are out there having fun you might find your true soul mate. . (:

i hope i helped

Listen:

(1) A pole dance for your self

(2) A hot shower with a poster

(3) A walk in late evening with a transparent dress

(4) You have that, i know. Just do it, baby.

Dating a man won't work because if they end up bad it ill make you want to run back to the last bad one, You should yes shop, hang with friends..but most importantly get an extra curricular activity that takes up a lot of your time.

be selfish, do all the stuff you couldn't do in a relationship, and don't fall into the "I'll never find anyone else " trap. alot of folks see having a GF/BF as a badge of honor, IE: i have someone therefore i am worthy of being loved. its a crock. be independant and love who you are. sometimes it even helps to get mad silently and let it be your own little rebellion "woohoo i can do what i want"

1.Get a new hobby

2.Avoid him

3.Get a sex toy

4.Put a posse on his head, hunt him down,lassoo his *** and make him wish he's never met u

5.Find a new career that enables u to spend all day obsessing about a new guy

whenever you are depressed ,confused and hurt! don't worry stand in front of the mirror,u'll find the best person who'll solve your problem.