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Is practicing abstinence worth it?

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  • ?
    Lv 7
    1 decade ago
    Favorite Answer

    Yes... worked for me!

    As for me and my household, we will serve the Lord.

    MARANATHA! Come, Lord Jesus, COME!

  • Dan
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It's good and worth it in that there's no risk in getting an STD or having a kid. Other than that, it's up to you if it's worth it or not.

    personally, I don't think it is. Being abstinent (not by choice) has been very stressing and depressing to me.

  • 1 decade ago

    Yes! I really wish I would have waited. Avoided heart break, scars, and life long consequences. Imagine you glue two pieces of construction paper together and let them dry. Then very carefully try to pull them apart. It is guaranteed that part of each paper will end up on the other. Part of you will always be with that person adn vice verse. Memories, either happy, sad, or both. They will be with you forever. And when you finally find your soul mate, it just isn't worth it. I have NEVER met someone who regretted waiting. But I constantly hear people who regret not waiting. Me included.

  • 1 decade ago

    No no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no no! If you do not know how to practice safe-sex (or have moral reasons for not practicing safe-sex) then you better practice abstinence to avoid terrible consequences of such a wonder human interaction.

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  • 1 decade ago

    It really depends upon how much reverence your place in having sex.

    If you see it as a miraculously important event between two people - one that will solidify their love for all time, then yes...it's worth it.

  • 1 decade ago

    “Do you want real love?”

    If genuine love has escaped you thus far, if think you’ve already found that perfect someone, or if regrets and confusion have made you wonder if the love you’ve dreamed of really exists, the following pages have been written for you.

    If you’re like me, you’ve been told that sex is bad. But when you ask why, you hear something like, “It’s just bad, so don’t do it,” or “You’ll get a disease or get pregnant!” While I’m sure you realize that sex has its consequences—and they might be bad if they happen—these reasons aren’t always convincing.

    Our generation has been taught how to avoid venereal infections, but what we really want to know is how to find, build, and maintain a relationship of real love. Sex is supposed to be a great gift, so it’s easy to get tired of hearing about the diseases and unwed pregnancy rates. If you’re ready for a different approach, and you want the gift of sex to be as great as it was meant to be, read on.

    “How do I find love?”

    Everyone wants love. Everyone longs to give himself or herself to another. We’re made for love, and that need in us is so deep that many would rather risk getting pregnant or getting an STD than live without love. We may be willing to take these risks because the world tells us that sex equals love. Then we see relationships in which sex destroyed love, and we wonder what went wrong. The only solution capable of breaking through this hurt and confusion is the virtue known as chastity.

    “What’s chastity?”

    Chastity is a virtue (like courage or honesty) that applies to a person’s sexuality. It means that you take all of your sexual desires and order them according to the demands of real love. For example, when you love a person, you make whatever sacrifice is best for them and you do whatever is necessary to keep from harming them. Chastity means that you take this definition of love and apply it to sex.

    Some think that chastity simply means “no sex.” But that’s abstinence: focusing on what you can’t do and can’t have. Chastity is what you can do and can have, right now: a lifestyle that brings freedom, respect, peace, and even romance—without regret. Chastity frees a couple from the selfish attitude of using each other as objects, thus making them capable of true love.

  • Rick
    Lv 4
    1 decade ago

    It's a personal choice, not to be confused with stupid religious beliefs. Sex is a normal part of humans - animals, Religion dehumanizes everything. Decide for yourself. Be normal or be a follower of religion. By the way - when you use religion as an excuse to forego sex, well...look at catholic priests......

  • .
    Lv 5
    1 decade ago

    It is if you think it is. But humans are sexual creatures. Stifling countless generations of built up sexual instincts can be frustrating.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    The Catholic Church would have saved $1.5 billion had many of its priests believed in it.

  • Anonymous
    1 decade ago

    You bet! It's amazingly worth it!

  • 1 decade ago

    Absolutely

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