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My mom found naked doodles? help? :(?
Ok..so the other day I decided to doodle in my diary...naked people to be exact, complete with genitals & boobs. and some of them were..uh..getting it on.
So I shut my diary and was planning to erase & throw out the paper.
So I left to go to an event at my school. It was fun.
I came home, and my mom said, "Can I speak to you?" she brought me down to her room, and took out my notebook.
she started asking me about if i had seen stuff like this and how come i knew what everything looked like. (i knew them from my science textbook & my own anatomy). she said she was just "shocked".
so what do i do? i'm embarassed, guilty, and i feel bad for my mom considering she thought i was innocent. im planning on talking to her about it but idk what to say.
thanks for all the advice.
9 Answers
- AlexLv 61 decade agoFavorite Answer
Call her out, ask her why she was going through your diary which you assumed was for your personal use and therefore something you assumed would be -PRIVATE-
I had a similar thing happen to me and I just called my mother out on it. I offered that I wouldn't ask her why she was going through my stuff if she wouldn't ask about my personal things. It ended up a stalemate and we just left it at that. Now we laugh about it.
Really what you choose to draw is your business, you're perfectly innocent but you're not ignorant either and your mother can't expect you to remain oblivious forever because you are growing up and you do learn about these things. Wouldn't she rather you knew the facts and expressed yourself through drawings rather than going out and doing something stupid and then regretting it like so many teens?
- Anonymous1 decade ago
An easy way to weasel out of it is the tell her what she wants to hear, and NOT what she doesn't want to hear.
Tell her you know about sex. You think it's a beautiful way for a man and a woman to express their love to each other. Although you don't plan on having sex until you're 21 and hopefully married, you still think it's romantic when you see a couple making love. Say "Mom, you know how a teenage girl thinks about this stuff sometimes. I can't stop my hormones from invading my thoughts from time to time."
That's how you admit your mistake, but re-assure her you are not going to have sex.
- bopdaddyLv 71 decade ago
you are still an innocent but you appear to have some artistic abilities and chose to express them in a silly way in that you did nothing to hide or destroy them.
Knowing what body's look like has no more to do with sex acts than it does with killing people
Tell mom the truth and if she says don't do that again agree and find other subject to draw
- LindseyLv 41 decade ago
Tell her why you doodled that stuff make sure you're honest. Try locking your diary with a key.
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- 1 decade ago
Say that it was a one time and that you were gonna throw it away then after a while say wait why were you goin through my stuff and ps try a lock or hidin it better
- gamonLv 44 years ago
each and all the policies to sucessfully hiding ur diary =) a million. ask her what she replaced into searching for 2. i say save ur diary on a working laptop or laptop with a password to get entry to the record 3. make the password something no you may okay anticipate 4. with the aid of no potential EVER tell or write down the password EVER 5. basically write in it together as no person is residing residing house or on the comparable floor as you 6. constantly X it out together as u bypass away even for a 2d. it is person-friendly to forget approximately approximately approximately it. 7. conceal it under countless folders 8. do ur optimal ideal to no longer enable human beings realize it is on the laptop good fulfillment, did no longer somewhat answer the question, as nicely the uncomplicated actuality that it is extremely difficult for persons to locate it this type =D
- 1 decade ago
I've done this before. didn't realise my mum knew till we were going through some old paperwork together and we found them amongst it. she said she found it funny, thats why she kept them (they were pretty crap drawings!) she was probably worried you had watched porn and were becoming addicted. just tell her you were bored. she probably secretly finds it funny!
- Anonymous1 decade ago
Well, you should tell your mom you were sorry, and tell her that one of your friends dared you to do it.
- Anonymous1 decade ago
wow!..Just be honest with her.next time look it up with a key