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Do husbands ever come back home after a separation?

Do husbands ever feel bad for walking out on their wives, enough to come home eventually and try again??? Or are they gone for good once they leave. My husband left due to too much arguing, or so he said. He was also mad that I was selfish with money, and I didn't trust him enough. He wouldn't go to counseling, he just left? On average, do husbands usually come back to try again?

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  • 10 years ago
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    Most times, yes husbands do come back home. Whenever a man leaves it is usually because he feels he will benefit by doing so, escaping whatever the stressful situation was that made him want to leave. No matter what you think is the reason for his leaving most times it is only the icing that broke the camels back. The bottom core that brings about a man to makea decision to leave is because he is not getting three elements from the relationship with his wife. One, attention, two, appreciation, three admiration. But you still have the power to get him back. You first have to calm down, get your emotions into check and take this time to focus on what really was your husband not getting, whether it be respect, affection, whatever. It is important you get down to the real reason behind why he left because this will empower to get him back. Second, you need to give him some space for now. Leave him completely alone. This means no contact from you at all, no messages, no emails, nothing. This will give him time to heal his wounds and to cool down. He is angry and resentful right now and the natural thing for him to do is to try and hurt you back. So leave him alone. What will leaving him alone eventually do? For one thing he will cool down. Then a strange thing begins to happen, he will begin to miss you. After all, he cannot turn off his feelings for you just by walking out. He might even do all he can to forget, even go out with his buddies, anything to escape. Remember he is focusing on running as far away from the situtation as possible. But your silence can change his mind. Not hearing from you will give him a chance to not only miss you but to start thinking about all the good things about you. As time goes by and still not word from you, he will begin to wonder about you, what you are doing, what is making you so strong. You will begin to look interesting to hm and he will begin to see you in a better light. Why, because by doing this you have silently put value on your worth. Then he will make excuses to contact you, whether it be the children, the finances, anything, but he will make an excuse to talk to you. He nees to feel and hear where you are emotionally cause your silence got his curiosity. It is important that when he does contact you that you do not get tempted to get into old arguments with him. Do not act overly nice, and do not give himi details of how you have missed him. Simply be polite, answer any questions he asks (without trying to make him jealous or givng too much info) and then quickly end the call. Trust me this worksk, he will be calling you wishing he never left.. In the mean time as I have said work on what it was that drove him away and get books or internet information on working on a solution. Good luck to you.

  • Anonymous
    5 years ago

    So you have decided that getting back together with an ex is the best choice for the both of you. While you may feel excited and relieved, keep in mind there could be rocky roads ahead if you are not careful. A break up is not something taken lightly. Make sure you are truly ready to reunite by asking yourself the following questions.

    Does My Ex Make Me Feel Angry, Sad or Frustrated?

    When you spend time with your ex, do you still feel those negative emotions welling up inside?

    If so, you are not ready to try again. You are still feeling the effects of the break up. You may need to only sit down talk and air out the issues that are still bothering you. If this doesn't work, you should consider postponing the reunion until you feel better about it.

    Do You Truly Want This Person?

    Some people fall in love with the idea of being in love rather than the person they are supposed to be in love with. Make sure you are not getting your relationship fix by getting back with an ex. You should actually feel something special for this one person. If anyone can fill the position, then you are better off moving on until you can get your emotions and needs in order.

    Is the Past Really Behind You Both?

    The break up was caused by something. Whatever it was, have you both come to terms and found a solution that is fair to each partner? Are you ready to move on while leaving those bad things in the past? If you are not truly ready, these things can begin to appear in the form of arguments and bickering which can make your relationship break again further down the road.

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  • 6 years ago

    I am not willing to live in a sick relationship any longer! I have almost been married 42 years - yes that is what I wrote. At 60 I woke up -very helpful to attend AlAnon meetings for support to stand up for myself. I will say my husband has left before & I let him return only to receive the same treatment! He is verbally abusive and has abandoned me during traveling and working together - a nightmare! My husband has been sober 5 years , but without AA support. Now, I recently discovered he has been using Cold & Cough med to get high - its another addiction - I didn't even realize this was an addiction! I am ready to start my life over- ladies or guys don't wait as long as I did- Love Yourself to leave and take care of yourself !! Melinda

  • 5 years ago

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  • Anonymous
    4 years ago

    Will My Husband Come Back

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

    Build up the trust you two shared again by showing him that he can talk to you about anything. If you can become his confidante now, that will establish a strong connection that will help you once his new relationship ends. If he does start talking to you about problems with his girlfriend, don't take his side. Remain as neutral as you possibly can. This will show him that you're mature enough to offer guidance without trying to persuade him to end things with her. He'll feel closer to you and once the dust settles after his next break up, you'll be the one waiting to pick up the pieces of his heart.

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago

    On average, no. And the longer they stay gone, the less chance they will come back (if they are going to change their mind, it is usually within the first few weeks, or the first month).

    Husbands are more likely to come back home if they were kicked out, less likely if they themselves were the one to create the separation.

    If he will not now go for counseling, he is no longer interested in working on the relationship and there is nothing for you to do about it.

  • Anonymous
    6 years ago

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    5 years ago

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