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©@$h
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©@$h asked in Social SciencePsychology · 10 years ago

living with paranoid schizophrenic and Egotistical man?

i don't know what to do !!! They are the Ultimate wind up Merchants, i am already going through a rough time right now but they making matters worse. next door they is an 83 yr old woman who hears Humming,Whistling,Singing and has to be suffering from Delusions of Paranoia. she use to come round the house Complaining that i was keeping her up at night, and she even knocked the doors at night to tell me to pack it in and she was fetching the police. (she never did through) and an Alpha male who is my mothers bf who shaves his hair off to look hard and pretends to chew who smokes who is 54 tomorrow. He is Very Dominate, and always trys to wind me up.... i suffer From Agoraphobia. I also Suffer from Drifting eyes and my mother suffers From Arthritis. he don't live at the home but now he has his foot half way in the door he thinks he can take charge. he is not like this with anyone else and because quiet has a natural advantage to take control by getting cocky , insulting and is very Argumentative and Opinionated. i don't know what to do !! how can i put up with this...

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My mother sleeps up his house By the way !!!! http://www.schizophrenia.com/szparanoid.htm

i just pasted website to Paranoid schizophrenic.. i really think this is the Symptoms is it ??? i don't know she could have Dementia through. i always hear her slamming doors and singing.. she says she slams doors to drown out the singing by me ??? but she is the one singing out loud and in her head

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  • Anonymous
    10 years ago
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    Whether the old woman is Paranoid schizophrenic or not, she's still going to stay living there. You know she isn't right, so don't let her get a hold on you. You know better. Perhaps you should try to have a civil talk with her and tell her you aren't doing those things she claims you're doing. Maybe you should call a family member of her and tell them about your problem.. Maybe they can talk some reason into her..

    About your mothers bf.. You should talk to your mother about that. He shouldn't be dominant towards you, he should respect you as an individual and be glad he may live in your mothers house. Just try to talk with your mother about it and tell her how you feel about it.. You're still more important than that guy!

    I'm really sorry you're going through so much right now, but try to focus on your own goals. Try to be strong, even though the rough circumstances. Better days will come, you just have to pass this difficult period.. And always remember, what doesn't kill you, just makes you stronger..

    If the old lady stays the way she is, I suggest you to file a complaint against her, for molesting you and perhaps moving to another apartment..

    Good luck and I really hope I could help you out somehow..

  • stalls
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    It seems such as you're a compassionate individual with a superb form of kindness to grant, yet your sister is in a difficult place in her head. in actuality, that prognosis potential that she distorts actuality. you ought to only write her notice telling her the variety you sense after which asserting that if she's ever needs a pal or somebody to talk to you, you will desire to be that individual. you additionally can, in that letter, ask her what you're able to do to earn her believe. Then only flow away her on my own, yet possibly deliver her an impressive letter each few months. yet, remember, psychological ailment is unquestionably an ailment. only because of the fact the middle could have disease, so can the innovations. If she's a paranoid schizophrenic and bipolar, it potential that she's on fairly good drugs just to be out of the well being facility. comprehend that she is terrified of a superb form of issues that don't scare maximum folk. only as some every person is terrified of planes and others are terrified of sharks, your sister is terrified of trusting human beings (in keeping with hazard via loss of her mom) and fears being harm and used. yet, it is component to her chemistry. it is not thoroughly rational. consisting of your compassion, in keeping with hazard you ought to think of of a profession in psychological well being counseling and psychology -- it would supply you super perception into your sister.

  • 10 years ago

    Hard to say when you're not a psychiatrist. It'd try to avoid and ignore them all if possible.

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