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Julia35 asked in Family & RelationshipsFamily · 9 years ago

Aunt continously ask nosy questions of my facebook?

Okay, I have an Aunt that joined facebook. Well, that was a big mistake. I set my account, for her to not post on my wall, or even see my wall. All, she can see is my info, pictures and message me. I did this, because everytime I posted comments on my wall. She would call me asking why this or why that. That is why I did that. When that happened she left a psycho message on my answering machine. Saying this. " I want to know why I cannot leave messages on your wall." I want to know why your info page says this." Yeah, she thought my info page was aimed at her; when it wasn't.

When she calls me. She continously ask me, is she is still on my facebook friends list. It makes me uncomfortable. She is in her mid 50's and acts this way. I know she has problems. But, I am realizing she lets facebook get to her. What drew the last straw was today. I receive a message with the same redundant question. " Why can't I post on your wall."

My response to her, was this. I will be honest here. I think you take facebook to personal and let it control your feelings. I also proceded to say this. I like my facebook set up different than most people. I told her that doesn't mean I love her, or anyone else any less. I tried to be polite in this message. But, deep inside, I wanted to be rude and delete her. I am just sick of her uncomfortable questions just over facebook.

I feel like deleting her for her and my own good. Any thoughts yahoo?

Update:

Feli I appreciate your advice. But, I am 36 don't need Mother and Father to over power her.

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  • 9 years ago
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    You are 36 and you have been blunt with her. You and she are both old enough to have lives of your own. She may be your aunt, but you aren't her little, childish niece any more and she cannot order you around like when you were little when older family members could boss around all kids. You don't want her, so delete her. If she wants to know why, tell her in as kindly a manner as you can, that you only have people going on your wall who you invite onto it. I think that says it all. If she takes umbrage, then tough. It's HER problem, not yours.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    First of all..go to her facebook page and immediately block her. Second, if she still pesters you on the phone, get your mother or father or someone that can over power her and tell her to stop with all the questions.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Deactivate it u goombar only total looser are on facebook the only reason im on it is to abuse people wen im bord pick up a book and start reading and learn 1 new thing evry day

  • 9 years ago

    tell her someone has hacked your account and your closing it down then block her just tell her your not on Facebook or tell her you've sent a friend request but don't and she'll think something is wrong with Facebook because the friend request won't come through and she won't be able to find you because you blocked her good luck

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  • 4 years ago

    everybody who's over the age of thirty and single are going to stand alot of loopy and impolite questions like those. there is plenty tension in our society consistent with "social norms" and whilst human beings are not married at a later age others around them get curious it rather is unavoidable! All regardless of the undeniable fact that if I have been you i might cope with it by making use of being thoroughly truthful. you do not might desire to have a impolite tone yet you will be able to desire to assert something like "I basically have not chanced on the right individual" or in case you rather do not innovations being thoroughly truthful basically say i might rather not answer your questions approximately my very own existence. fairly i've got faith it rather is none of their company and each so often you will be able to desire to be truthful with human beings to get your component in the time of. good success! i think of my brother has been having those comparable themes and it fairly worry me whilst human beings malicious program him approximately it!

  • Paul
    Lv 7
    9 years ago

    What you say over the internet you say to real people who have real feelings. Your words and actions on face book are no less real than your words you say in real life. If you lie on face book you're lying to real people.

    Your experience makes me glad I don't use facebook.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    I don't use it. I hear nothing but bad things about it.

    Stay off it for a few months, and she will think you don't go on there any more?

    And stay off it! Get a life instead? ;-)

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    You create a separate account, where she is your only friend and she can post anything she want.

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