What would you do if your boyfriend called the sheriff and a private investigator because you weren't home?

You need to report the theft to the police. You should not allow him to talk his way out of this, because that is the behavior of a psychopath. See about getting your stuff back, take away his key and change your locks and probably prepare yourself to file a restraining order.

Your statement doesn't add up. No sheriff is going to allow someone (your BF) to come into your home and take everything. It's just not legal! He hired a private investigator??? Your BF may have told you he did it, but I seriously doubt it. OK if your stuff is gone, and the sheriff allowed it to happen, go to the sheriff's office and file a complaint to have him/her get your stuff back. Finally, you still consider the guy your boyfriend??? Cut him loose now, and let him be obsessed with someone else who likes that sort of thing!

umm well thats a tuff one:/ if he was my bf i would be kinda freaked out so it depends how much you care about him. if you really like this guy just let this one slip away and explain to him that he doesnt have to panick if ur not home. But if that was me i would prob break up or make sure to have some space cuz he seems like he needs to know were u are the whole time and im the kind of person who doesnt spend all her time telling ppl where i am. But if he called the sherrif cuz he was worried u were kidnaped or something i would stick with him cuz he obviously likes u but if he called the sherrif cuz hes a control freak or something i would dump him

Sounds dangerous. A little too attached. Becareful. I would say leave him. You're a big girl. But he seems like one of those obsessed men. I'M sorry.

He sounds kinda obsessive. Make your decision based off of that.

Change the locks on your doors, change your phone number, change boyfriends,