I'm starting to hate the things I like because someone I hate likes them?

WHY would he flirt in front of you!? that is his friend BUT..you're his girlfriend. he would not like it if you flirted with other guys in front of him. ..thats lack of respect.

she is obviously jealous if she insults you...she likes some of the things you do, doesnt mean that she is like you.

I just want to know in what way she is being a huge problem? I mean if shes trying to get with your boyfriend and you're worried about that why not just mention to him that you believe she likes him and ask him if u have anything to worry about. Simplest way. Its not being jealous or overbearing its just a question. Ive never personally had this problem but coming from someone whos friends are mostly guys idk if this girl is in the same position as me. But im nothing but nice to girls my guy friends date and some of them have had issues with me for whatever reason. This resulted in me losing lifelong best friends. So unless this girl is really being a huge ***** to you or sumtin. Pls give her a chance! Bcuz i know how it feels to lose a best friend because his gf felt jealous or intimidated or whatever the hell. Other than that my advice is just dont let her get to you. Just because she likes the same things doesnt make you guys the same person. Toughen up! My suggestion stay true to yourself and dont let other people have that much of an influence over you. The best you can do is to just have enough pride in who u are to not let others negatively affect that. if it helps think of it this way you feeling the way u do now is lettin her win. Your allowing her to have power over you and your life. Dont let how you feel about someone consume who you are.

Ur bf has a best friend whos a girl and it sounds like youre jealous. Don't be. He likes you in the way that he doesnt like her

I think she admires you! Lol she wants to be like you. Think of it this way, say you guys both have the same dress on to prom. You cant hate the dress just because she likes it, just think to yourself “I know I look better in it than her”

If she sees that your being bothered by her she will get satisfaction out of it. Don’t show your hate for her. Just replace it with confidence!

*why would your boyfriend talk to someone who makes you feel uncomfortable? That isn’t very understanding of him. [you don’t get to pick his friends- so HE DOESN’T get to pick your friends either…compromises ;) ]

Sounds like you have strong feelings for her, maybe you should kiss her see what happens.

love yourself enough to not let others make choices for you