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My husbands's ex wife?

my husband was married to his first wife for 10 years & they divorced because she was having sex with other men behind his back,because he love her so much he asked her to stop having sex with other men & they can have a new start, she refused.. He got married after her but this marriage lasts for one month he even don't want to remember her name & he hates her so much more than his first ex. He refused to say why..my husband waited 6 years for his first ex to return to him because he said he was still in love with her.My problem is i'm married to him now since two months.we had 8 really big arguments weres heading to divorce he fight with me on almost nothing & he wanted to divorce me for that when i told him that ex was cheating on u & despite that u wanted to give her a chance & u was still in love with her why u treat me less than her & i told him if he still has feelings for her why he married me...my problem is he argued with me later because i insulted her & he said that i insulted a member of his family which is his ex. My Question is: Is he still in love with her? Should i leave him?

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  • 9 years ago
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    I have the same problem and my name is Sarah too. They were together for 10 years too and she cheated on him many times. She got pregnant by another man when they were still together. He forgave her and cheated again. I don't have any other problem with him but his ex. Why do ex's have to exists? Do you wanna be my friend?

  • 9 years ago

    This is harsh, but he sounds really stupid and weird. He doesnt know how to be in a relationship. Doesnt sound like he has any love or respect for himself either, if you dont have that, its almost impossible to have a healthy relationship. A relationship can not last between a strong person and a weak person. Dont leave him specifically because of his ex(although like I said, its weird), but because hes an unhealthy negative person who refuses to move on with his life, a person who doesnt have the courage to deal with their personal issues like an adult. You deserve to be with someone who u can have fun with, who has their emotions and issues under control, and who will lift u up not bring u down.

  • 9 years ago

    U married someone who has unsolve issues.. He has to have some kind of feeling to consider her his family once is over is over unless u have kids u have nothing to speak or feel any type of way toward ur ex.. What it is he never close that chapter with his ex wife, he try to marry to forget the pain he was going trough or to try to have his wifes after his ex to fix what his ex did to him.. He was been selfish in he thought about himself in his feelings in not about urs or how ull fall in love.. He trys to move on but shortly reliaze that his wife after his 1st can fix the scared he has.. Try to get some couseling for ur self.. Good luck!!

  • mad
    Lv 4
    9 years ago

    Let him go to the hell and left the person who have no moral values in life .

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Yes and yes.

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