how do you succesfully exercise dream control?

Don't know how to explain how I have my won control, (notice I'm always deciding whether or not to even stay in mine) seems to be an option;if I'm bored with it, I end it, if it's delightful in anyways, I make myself stay in it, but remembering most all dreams are right before we actually wake up, so a loud noise, or other outside influence can and usually enters here, as well. But, mine seem to be orchestrated basically on how I'm feeling, at the onset, and during it all. Never stay long if it is uncomfortable, its like I hear my own thoughts, and they just take over; (?) *just decide, whether to play it out, or leave! (out of the parent in me) to split! **I do not claim to control, emphatically DO NOT! or even posses any types of control, (besides just being a *woman) that I am guilty of, but then so are millions of others either that or radiating out of feeling what i's like to me male/man. *But it may sound as I do here, *please, *not meant to: I'm just *aware of that aspect I mentioned, as I don't call that *real control by any long shots. Being *Aware is a catagory "all of it;s own". Be it learned, or a gift, so, *Not exactly control either! "as I see it"!