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Is it OK for my bf to watch porn?

Hello me and my boyfriend have been together for two years. I was using his phone browsing the internet and saw porn sites that he had been on. I confronted him about it and he said it was ages ago! i knew he was lying. we argued about it and i told him i didnt think it was right him looking at another naked women and it made me feel really upset.

He now makes comments like look at my history and he will scroll down and there's nothing on there like he has deleted it and he is getting internet fitted so he can use a laptop and I keep thinking he only wants it for porn.

Is it wrong that it upsets me this much?

What could i say to him to make him realise?

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago
    Favorite Answer

    It's fine by me. I don't care what he watches.

  • Erika
    Lv 4
    5 years ago

    It can be exceptional than most women. Nevertheless it's good enough. If the porn observing starts interferring together with your relationship, then you would have got to object, but it surely doesn't frequently until a guy becomes hooked on it and is simply too worn out to trouble with you.

  • 9 years ago

    Honey, EVERY man watches porn. Those who claim they don't are lying.

    Your being upset by it just speaks to your own insecurities. It's not like he's actively sleeping with these women. He still finds you attractive and wants to have sex with you.

    What he does in his own time is his business. Be thankful it isn't other women.

    The next question is why you felt you had any right to go through his browser histories! That's a whole other can of 'violating trust' worms.

  • 9 years ago

    Basically, the way I see it is, people (not just men) are going to look at porn when they want to you know 'fly solo'.

    Nothing is going to stop that.

    So you can either

    1 - Dump him and forget dating all together.

    or

    2 - Accept it and stop causing arguments over it.

    Its no big deal.

    And he doesnt need to realize anything.

    To him this is just something to turn him on, he doesnt care about their personality, their interests, likes/dislikes, he doesnt want to live with them or talk to them...he just wants to **** off over it.

    So what would you prefer?

    to be wanked over?

    Or all the other stuff...

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  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    Dont worry about it of youve been together for 2 years its understandable

    dont take it personally he probably loves you and hes not just getting off on other girls for example lets say you guys dint do it for a week or lets say your not married and ur saving ur self well we as guys fell urges like a tank in our dick driving towards something to **** dont feel self conscious at least hes not cheating on you

  • krinkn
    Lv 5
    9 years ago

    Do not let your insecurities get the best of you. Looking at porn is not a gateway drug to infidelity or a poor relationship. Let this go.

  • Caz
    Lv 6
    9 years ago

    Assuming dating children is not an option for you, and not dating at all is not an option for you, you're going to have to get used to the idea of dating someone who watches pornography. Everybody does it now and again. It's not cheating, it's just masturbation.

  • 9 years ago

    There's nothing I can say that will make you feel better. Many men refer to porn. All the time. Many women too. Masturbation is really important to men. Many women too.

  • 9 years ago

    it's fine hun, don't worry, all guys watch porn at least once in life, he'll get over it sooner or later, try not to sorry so much

  • 9 years ago

    You're not going to find a guy that doesn't do it, so it's something you're going to need to get over.

  • Anonymous
    9 years ago

    yeah its ok..and u shouldnt b worrying about this. even my bf does..but i never tried to stop him or got mad at him bcz of this. no1 can stop guys from watching porn..believe me.

    answer mine??

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