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How to deal with feeling alone :/?
I used to always feel mentally alone, now im physically alone too.
I've suffered with social anxiety since my early teens years and often felt like alone, mostly within my actual head.
I still had a small amount of good friends and over time it's become 1 or 2 to be honest.
I am the youngest in my family, and as a child was smothered by the care of 7 older siblings.
This year my last two siblings that were left at home, have both moved out and gettin along with their own lives.
My parents are busy too, although i do live with them and see them everyday.
But right now they are out and my good but few friends are busy,
I am sitting at home, crying because I've become scared, is this what is destined for me?
to become physically alone as the years go on.
It doesn't feel nice :(
6 Answers
- 8 years agoFavorite Answer
Loneliness may be beautiful, if you strongly wish to be all on your own, to do and to think more freely. Yet loneliness or a lonesome life is not what you want. If you do want to be among others, you might try and go out and do some social sport where you might even be competing for medals or other great prizes. This might earn you a new net-work of friends, even of fans, of those that will admire you and will want to be near you.
Instead of sitting at home and crying, you might go out and detect somebody out there, an acquaintance or a good stranger, standing or sitting and waiting for the eyes of you two to meet, for you to say something.
You might try and go out and do some great perspiring exertions. You might go for a walk or hike or ride. You might go and till a garden. You might propose your assistance to some disabled neighbour or to a good oldie where you might run some necessary errands for them. Such an activity might help you to find some new good friends, and through your work also to earn some merits for yonder paradise or simply some good money that will be paid to you for the help that you can give.
Dear good friend of ours within the wider bounds of this great cyberspace, so also you might try and do instead of sitting at home and crying. You might also try and be more open for chances of some great merry thoughtless laughs in good company, when good loving company is there, or more often most sublimely all on your own. Good luck!
- Anonymous8 years ago
You can know that your close friends, if they are busy right now, will never leave you and your siblings and parents will still be your siblings and parents. They won't leave you. You aren't alone, even though it feels like that. You could get a pet to help with the physical loneliness. Dogs are like people and they can love you and stay with you. If you don't want that kind of commitment, then you can get something like a fish or a hamster or a lizard. Or you could get a parrot because some will actually talk to you. You could also spend your alone time reading or making origami or some other hobby.
- hamonLv 45 years ago
keep in mind that your own techniques and emotions are justified, and once you want to vent to someone, commence retaining a mag, write in it as oftentimes as you want, perchance once an afternoon or some cases an afternoon once you want to get some thing off you chest, journaling helps because it lets you get each and every thing out uninterrupted and without anyones perspective as well your own, then you definately can mirror again, and comprehend issues for your self more advantageous suitable. some different suggestions are, growing to be a member of a church, seeing a counselor, chatrooms are frequently relaxing there are some that you dont ought to sign up or some thing merely placed a reveal screen call in and your able to talk to an finished room, or to human beings on my own, an internet site i understand of the position there are moderators observing each and every of the time to save the area and chat sparkling is termed stay on line chat, also perchance getting a puppy would help some, even if its only a small puppy.save in techniques, issues continually get more advantageous suitable !
- Anonymous8 years ago
hi tee pamer(: im very sorry u feel that way, becus nobody wants to feel that. but if you can get past your social anxiety u will be able to be more socialable and be able to talk to more people and make more friends. There are a lot of people with a problem like this. Just be nice to everybody(: and u can get a pet or be my friend:))
Best wishes(:
-shaina
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- kennethLv 58 years ago
i know how you feel, all my brothers and sister have gone, i`m left on my own now, so just have to get on wiht t. meet people in pud, clubs, library, anywhere there is people, and make an effort to get to know them. You might be working, so make riends there, but it`s too late for me, i` all alone, and suffering because no one is there when i want to `cry on someones shoulder`. Good luck
- Anonymous8 years ago
See your Doctor and join as support group such as secrethamster.co.uk [Mental Health Support forum].
I did and they are helping me lots
Source(s): secrethamster.co.uk [Mental Health Support forum]