Poll: when talking to an attractive woman, what do you focus your conversation on?

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When you see a woman you're attracted to and go talk to her, do you usually focus on showing her your qualities and talk about your interests/looks or do you focus on her qualities/looks and what interests her? What is the most effective? And do you see others around you do the same or would you consider your "game" to be different from other people around you?

Please, if you're comfortable, say your age, gender, and what country you associate yourself as being from.

Thank you in advance!!!

Ray · Accepted Answer

19
Male
USA

I try to keep the conversation away from our own attributes (looks interests) unless something is obviously standing out. For example, if a woman is clearly wearing an extravagant dress or looks well made-up, then I'll probably kick conversation off with something like that. Most of the time I keep conversation casual unless we become friends or something like that. School, work, music, etc. 

Most effective? Simply put, not talking too much about myself haha.

My "game" is pretty common I think. Some guys go all out and start talking about themselves, and no matter how much I tell myself it won't work, it ends up working well for them lol. I think every guy has a different kind of "game", some can just use it more effectively.

LCC · Answer

Last time I was in a situation like this, I got her to talk more so I could ask questions/respond to things she said.  That's how conversations tend to go well.

We had our first date a few days later and made out at the end of it.  :D

And that's how it's done. BOOM!

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Poll: when talking to an attractive woman, what do you focus your conversation on?

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