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Do you and your spouse still have a spark?

After 12 years of marriage, (and almost 20 years together as a couple), my husband and I still love each other very much. We still have great sex. Mentally and emotionally, we are perfectly connected. But you know those butterflies you used to get when you were young and just in love? Do you still get those with your spouse? Is it normal to not feel that exciting electricity? Does that mean you're no longer really and truly in love?

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    We'll be celebrating 20 years of marriage this summer. We still get along great, we have plenty in common, but the truth is, things are different. I don't get butterflies and I doubt he does either. BUT we do have consistency, private jokes, and an intimate knowledge of each other. That beats butterflies, any day.

  • Chris
    Lv 7
    8 years ago

    I love my wife. She is the most attentive woman and she is also tough as nails. It has been 7 years now and I still obsess about her........she also lets me film her naked and having sex with me so that always keeps a guy very interested. I don't even look at other porn anymore. Great sex is the key to a great relationship.

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