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I broke up with my exgirlfriend. She moved on. I want her back HELP!!! 10 PTS?

I broke up with my girlfriend after a month and a half because she got really clingy and annoying to the point of even the thought of her gave me a headache.

I broke up with her and she tried to get back together for bout a week and a half. I was fine with that as my feelings finally started coming back. shed always txt me to hang etc.

Then she lied to me saying she was sleep when i called when she was really at a party but then came clean because I found out she was lying and said it was loud and she had no connection in there anyways which is why she didnt pick up. Ive been mad at her for a good week before she finally gave up on me. Coincidentally I finally decided to let it go and told her how i felt only for her to tell me that shes over it cuhz her girl friends talked to her about it and agreed i was being a douchebag. And I put her through this and that.

Now I've been going through this emotional hell since friday. I don't want her back, at least I don't think I do. How can i get over her asap? It's killing me sometimes Im to the point to where I just wanna cry, which i did one time listening to sad music by accident and thinking about her. Sometimes i dream about her too. I WANT THIS OVER WITH WHAT DO I DO?!

i havent talked to her since sunday and want to call txt talk to her so bad. im so depressed im in a dark place right now somebody please help me out and tell me what to do to get over this situation.

Update:

Oh ya and im 17.

Update 2:

Taylor clearly didn't read this right.

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  • Anonymous
    8 years ago
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    Find a other girl. Not a girl to use just to get over this one, but one that will mean something. When one door closes another one opens.

  • Anonymous
    8 years ago

    If you guys fought this much while together, it's best to just let this one end. Yes it will be painful at first but you will eventually move on. Just busy yourself in the next little while and try not to think about her. Don't go for a rebound right away because that won't do you or the new girl any good.

  • 8 years ago

    You can't just get what you want all the time. You broke up with her on your own terms. she begged for you and you still stayed with your decision and that is fine! Now that you're begging for her back and shes done, you got mad at her? You can't just decide you want her back on your own time and expect her to come back. You understand that so you should know you are all the way in the beginning at block one, and since you already have a reputation with her and she knows what you did. it will be hard, harder than when you first got her to say yes to be your girl friend. Do something most guys won't. You'll have to prove to her that you're not a, "douchebag." Do something that's surprising and sweet. Sing her a song! ( if you're comfortable ) Buy her flowers that say from your secret admirer for like a week and then send her a single note and tell her to meet you. then tell her your feelings. When you do that she will not get mad and fight with you. Her heart will be open with you and be happy to hear what you have to say.

  • 8 years ago

    Im going through the same thing you are. And although i may not be over my girlfriend you have to realize that life will go on. Its tough i know because i feel the same way. Every time i am reminded of her i just want to break down and blame myself. But brother WE CANT DO THAT, you are not weak, you are strong, and one day when you look back on this you will be proud of yourself that you had the self respect to find something better. Because you deserve better, in relationships its never your fault even if she thinks it is. You can't think that way, just keep going friend and we will be on the other side one day looking back and appreciating how strong we were.

    Source(s): Good luck, you can do it.
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  • 5 years ago

    Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/WQ7MW

    Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.

    The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.

    Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

  • 4 years ago

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  • 8 years ago

    either show her you care for her or move on.

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