Spanking your kid question?

I was spanked and I have kids that I spank

spreading there legs out hurts more and if its over the knee its easier for you :)

good luck

Research shows that children who are spanked misbehave MORE than those who aren't. Keep hitting a defenseless child- you'll end up with a resentful, sullen teenager.

I was smacked as a child but never asked to spread my legs this seems a bit wrong to me

That sounds really perverted O_o

I hope NO one in real life is telling a CHILD to spread their legs.

You are pathetic. Spanking just causes your children to abuse others. I can't believe I just read that. You must discipline them and make them sit or take stuff away from them. The more important thing is that you need to sit them down and calmly explain what they did wrong and why they shouldn't do it. Telling a child that "don't do it because I said so" Doesn't work. It teaches them when you explain why. Then they learn and it makes scene to them.

Your just unbelievable.

My mom made us spread our legs and it just seemed to hurt more

I'd guess mostly it is part of a "fantasy" ritual.

Just have your did bare his butt ... then the belt can do plenty of 'damage' to it; Have him "bend over" but let him be bent whatever way he prefers.

Doesn't help, unless u mean to make it hurt more

Don't spank your kids, please. This is the 21st century.