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My husband is cheating on me with a co worker... But he is denying everything .... Please help !!!?
He said that they are just friends. I put him out of the house a few weeks ago , and he have been sleeping at work... Yesterday after hours I saw her car parked near his job, at a time when she had no business there... ( very late at night) sadly I have no access to get in to his job. But I wanted to bust out windows . Scratch his car etc.... I was sooooo mad ... Today I'm just sad... Should I confront him about it hoping that he finally come clean, confront her, or just plain simple go and bust his car out,????? I'm 36 years old, I want to b a lady about all this, but I'm so pissed at the fact that he can't come clean... I think he dosent want to divorce be for financial reasons, otherwise we would , we separated 3 weeks ago.... Pease help
9 Answers
- UniverseoneLv 77 years agoFavorite Answer
If you want continue marriage with him, stop doubting and then guve him love and peace. Then he will love you.
If you continue doubting and put him in to corner, he has no way , but move out and find another woman.
Even you confronting him, give him love and affection.
Otherwise he will leave you.
Never doubt him again.
My tips
1. Do daily exercise to make you relax and sexy.
Then every body will like you.
2. Stop doubting.
3. Wait untill he apologize to you.
4. Accept him .
5. Keep some cold feelings so that he try to meet your satisfaction.
6. Ask more sex so that make him use all his sec desire with you.
If he do good, then appreicate a little. If bad, show him your disappointed.
7. Wear expensive skirt and jacket to show your beauty to other huys. Then guys will look at you in the street.
Then your hubby wi get pride of you and jealouse mind to the guys.
8. Meet more friends and go shopping more frequently so that make jim worries you as doubting.
Then he will care you snd come home early to keep you.
By this way, you can keephis love.
- Anonymous7 years ago
I can say this: If I wasn't cheating and had been kicked out of the house "for cheating" for three weeks, you'd see her car out front every night! At this point what's the harm...he's paying the penalty for cheating so he might as well enjoy the crime.
You didn't list a shred of evidence to defend your position that he's cheating, but I assume you have something. If he's been gone three weeks now and you really, really think he's cheating then file for divorce and be done with it. Breaking out the windows or anything like that is going to cause you more pain.
It's very sad this happens, but you need to pick up the pieces and move on now.
- 7 years ago
I agree with rlc_60504, that you need to find out just what your husband's relationship is with this woman before making the decision to end your marriage. Sit him down, ask the questions, and follow your gut. You know this man, you're married to him, so you'll know if he's lying to you or not.
If he is and you feel getting a divorce is what's best for you, then hold your head high as you walk out of his life. Show him what a good thing he lost by being a lady and keeping your dignity, and your temper. Don't give him fuel to slander your reputation by destroying his personal property. "Crazy b**** trashed my ride." Just walk away. Show him, and the other woman, how a class act behaves.
Good luck to you.
- ShirleyLv 45 years ago
Don't blame your husband and his video games for the fact that you rekindled something with an old flame. Also, this emotional affair crap means nothing. Any time you are involved with another human, there are emotions there. So you can screw around with the old boyfriend, but when he shows a little interest you are going to confront and embarrass the woman and your husband. Selfish doesn't begin to describe you.
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- BAMLv 77 years ago
If you saw her car by his work late at night, that means you are stalking him. You have no business there. Also, its possible that he says he isn't cheating as a technicality. Maybe his definition of cheating and yours are different. As an example, maybe he hasn't had sex with her. Maybe he is emotionally connected with her. My now ex wife was going off with a co worker while i was watching our kids. She looked at him as a friend. She divorced me to be with him.
I'd ask him a different way....Describe your relationship with Rebecca? Do you see her outside of work hours? How frequently? Does she call you? Do you text? How frequently? Have you guys bought anything for each other...gifts...meals...drinks? Then determine if its cheating.
- robert xLv 77 years ago
there is no point in smashing up his or her cars, two wrongs never make a right. so if you really want to get even then go straight to a divorce lawyer and take the guy for every penny you can get.
- Happy-2Lv 77 years ago
Help what? Your problem seems to be that he won't admit it. You already know he's cheating, so you don't need his admission. He's cheating - behave accordingly.
PS - I'm hazy on how you think vandalizing a car would improve the situation in any way.
- just_my_opinionLv 77 years ago
After hours, late at night, HE has no business being there either, but he is there because YOU kicked him out of his home. So, *now* you can't complain about who he spends time with.
- .Lv 77 years ago
You are free to file for divorce yourself...it's not required that he also desire it...