Liz Bianca

Every time we argue he goes and run to call and tell her our business... even though I have expressed many many times that I’m not comfortable with their friendship. At this point I think he is doing it to hurt  me because we are arguing ...what really bother me is that he chooses to have a connection with her instead of me ....  I have asked him to introduce us , he have said he will but that had never happened ... should I let that go or move on with him ? 

Sorry about my English, it’s not my first language. 

My boyfriend (father of my new born baby still talk to his ex, I have told him several times that It hurt me , but he gets mad because he said that they are really good friends. I asked him to introduce us but he said he don’t even see her... They don’t see each other , but every time we have an argument He reach out to her. Recently I told him that I couldn’t do it , I tried to be okay with there friendship but I’m really not. I told him that I had to remove myself. He decided then that he wasn’t going to talk to her anymore. Now today we had an argument and he called her and talked to her for a very long time. I feel disrespected.  I’m trying to keep my cool and act like a lady But it’s really hard. . What should I do ? 

We have been married for 7 and a hAlf years, I will be filling for divorce soon, would I be entitle to any of his personal bank account $$$ ? would that be considered community property ?

And if so, can I add that info on the divorce even if I don't have the actual back accounts #'s?

We live in California

Thank you

Lots if problems in the relationship. To the point of separation, we have been going back and forth , I have been the one trying to work things out... He kept on saying that he wasn't sure ... So I finally got fed up and said I'm done, so now we want to try... I told him that the only way I would agree is if go to marriage counseling, said ok pulling teeth... We tried about 2 weeks ago the first session , but because he wasn't trying to work on us . The session was horrible for both of us... Now I would like to give it another shot ... Am I wrong for giving him an ultimatum... Other wise he will never do it ....

We have been facing lil problems for years , I put him out because a month ago because I discover that he was having inappropriate communication. With some coworker, and that was the straw that broke the camels back. But of course I missed him, he came by a few time ( we had sex) until I finally let him in again, ( 7 yrs married ) anyways . I have been wanting to work in our relationship, but it seen like he dosent want to... The thing is that money is an issue hit him to start on his own . And so he is saying that he have to work it out.. HAVE TO. Emphasizing in his financial situation and a thennnnnn love . I love him dearly . I I know he is detached from me. And know he has this new Frienship that's filling out the gaps from my relationship w my husband... He said that I will meet her one day, but not now because I'm not ready... He think I'm going to act up( since I'm jealous of her) so I feel like he want to stay in the relationship so that I can make the decision of ending it when we do not work out . That way he won't be held accountable for it ... Pretty much that I let him walk way without paying me $$$$$

He Love íntimacy with me , but say that there's something missing ... They both ride motorcycle..so they have bonded . Etc

I want to save my marriage. But I know I should just let him walk way...

I feel like I'm drowning :-(

She is married, so he says it's all inocent, I'm totally jealous. And heart broken ... Please help :-/

We have been facing lil problems for years , I put him out because a month ago because I discover that he was having inappropriate communication. With some coworker, and that was the straw that broke the camels back. But of course I missed him, he came by a few time ( we had sex) until I finally let him in again, ( 7 yrs married ) anyways . I have been wanting to work in our relationship, but it seen like he dosent want to... The thing is that money is an issue hit him to start on his own . And so he is saying that he have to work it out.. HAVE TO. Emphasizing in his financial situation and a thennnnnn love . I love him dearly . I I know he is detached from me. And know he has this new Frienship that's filling out the gaps from my relationship w my husband... He said that I will meet get on me day, but not now because I'm not ready... He think I'm going to act up( since I'm jealous of her) so I feel like he want to stay in the relationship so that I can make the decision of ending it when we do not work out . That way he won't be held accountable for it ... Pretty much that I let him walk way without paying me $$$$$

He Love íntimacy with me , but say that there's something missing ... They both ride motorcycle..so they have bonded . Etc

Should I give my marriage a try . Or should I just let him walk way ??

I feel like I'm drowning :-(

She is married, so he says it's all inocent, I'm totally jealous. And heart broken ... Please help

We have been facing lil problems for years , I put him out because a month ago because I discover that he was having inappropriate communication. With some coworker, and that was the straw that broke the camels back. But of course I missed him, he came by a few time ( we had sex) until I finally let him in again, ( 7 yrs married ) anyways . I have been wanting to work in our relationship, but it seen like he dosent want to... The thing is that money is an issue hit him to start on his own . And so he is saying that he have to work it out.. HAVE TO. Emphasizing in his financial situation and a thennnnnn love . I love him dearly . I I know he is detached from me. And know he has this new Frienship that's filling out the gaps from my relationship w my husband... He said that I will meet get on me day, but not now because I'm not ready... He think I'm going to act up( since I'm jealous of her) so I feel like he want to stay in the relationship so that I can make the decision of ending it when we do not work out . That way he won't be held accountable for it ... Pretty much that I let him walk way without paying me $$$$$

He Love íntimacy with me , but say that there's something missing ... They both ride motorcycle... Etc

Should I give my marriage a try . Or should I just let him walk way ??

I feel like I'm drowning :-(

We have been having problems for a couple of years. All kind of problems.and we got to the point where we started sleeping in different rooms for about 1 week, now.during that time he started acting different. So I went trough his phone and saw some emails that where kind of inappropriate between him an a co worker. So he told me that was going to stop.He proceeded to block his phone. Abt 3 days later he told me he had a late meeting . It was kind of fishy to me so I drove by his office and I saw the girl parked there ( it was 10:30 at night) .i whent crazy, came back home n put his clothes out.He was out for 3 weeks.He came home .very now and then but we only argued.But I miss him so much. I see that he is enjoying his freedom. He is out getting drunk etc.He got married at 17,and have been married since. I want to think that he is going through an early mid live crisis.he is 34. He worked with all men, but now there is a group if new faces ( girls) his age at work and he is all exited because he have new friends they go drinking together, it's inappropriate but he dosent see it that way, I'm thorn because it seem like he rather be about in the streets , but I don't want to kick him back up because I feel that if he is out completely,, I will loose him. And now he is saying that fe want a open relationship. Wth!!!This is so that if something ever happen (on his side) we won't have any problems.He want me to go out so that he can miss me. I'm always home it help if I go out ?

We have been having problems for a couple of years. All kind of problems.and we got to the point where we started sleeping in different rooms for about 1 week, now..during that time he started acting different. So I went trough his phone and saw some emails that where kind of inappropriate between him an a co worker. So he told me that was going to stop.He proceeded to block his phone. Abt 3 days later he told me he had a late meeting . It was kind of fishy to me so I drove by his office and I saw the girl parked there ( it was 10:30 at night) .i whent crazy, came back home n put his clothes out... He was out for 3 weeks.. He came home .very now and then but we only argued. But I miss him so much. I see that he is enjoying his freedom. He is out getting drunk etc. He got married at 17,and have been married since. I want to think that he is going through an early mid live crisis.he is 34. He worked with all men, but now there is a group if new faces ( girls) his age at work and he is all exited because he have new friends they go drinking together , I think it's totally inappropriate but he dosent see it that way, I'm thorn because it seem like he rather be about in the streets , but I don't want to kick him back up because I feel that if he is out completely,, I will loose him. And now he is saying that fe want an open relationship. Wth!!!This is so that if something ever happen ( on his side) we won't gave any problems. I'm going crazy over this. He said he want to miss me

We ha even married for 7 years, having problems for abt 2 , things where getting out of control, trust issues, family issues , so he started spending lots of time out of the house ... To the point where I put him out of the house for 3 weeks...this month.

Now he want to work thinks out so I'm kind of taking him back...

While we where having problems , I mentioned counseling and he was totally against it... Now it will not b an option, I'm forcing him to go. But how good would it b if he dosent really want to b there ?,

Any one have gone through this situation ? Or does anyone have any advise ??

My husband and I separated 3 weeks ago. But is still paying my rent . We have been having problems for about 1 year. , ( he wants freedom) he says that as long as he come back home a decent hours I shouldn't say anything etc etc. among other problems... He seem to b enjoying his free live , but the problem is that he share custody of 2 children, 10 and 11 yrs old , and now that us visitation time , he seem to want to come back home, he say that he "have to work things out " Instead of " I want to"

So it seems to me that he only want to come back because of the roof over his head ... I know he love me, but I feel like he is going though a phase ....

So I told him that if he is out of the house then eventually we will b headed to divorce... And of course he don't want that $$$ . But he doesn't seem to really want to b with me either ... Any advise?

He said that they are just friends. I put him out of the house a few weeks ago , and he have been sleeping at work... Yesterday after hours I saw her car parked near his job, at a time when she had no business there... ( very late at night) sadly I have no access to get in to his job. But I wanted to bust out windows . Scratch his car etc.... I was sooooo mad ... Today I'm just sad... Should I confront him about it hoping that he finally come clean, confront her, or just plain simple go and bust his car out,????? I'm 36 years old, I want to b a lady about all this, but I'm so pissed at the fact that he can't come clean... I think he dosent want to divorce be for financial reasons, otherwise we would , we separated 3 weeks ago.... Pease help

He said that they are just friends. I put him out of the house a few weeks ago , and he have been sleeping at work... Yesterday after hours I saw her car parked near his job, at a time when she had no business there... ( very late at night) sadly I have no access to get in to his job. But I wanted to bust out windows . Scratch his car etc.... I was sooooo mad ... Today I'm just sad... Should I confront him about it hoping that he finally come clean, confront her, or just plain simple go and bust his car out,????? I'm 36 years old, I want to b a lady about all this, but I'm so pissed at the fact that he can't come clean... I think he dosent want to divorce be for financial reasons, otherwise we would , we separated 3 weeks ago.... Pease help

He said that they are just friends. I put him out of the house a few weeks ago , and he have been sleeping at work... Yesterday after hours I saw her car parked near his job, at a time when she had no business there... ( very late at night) sadly I have no access to get in to his job. But I wanted to bust out windows . Scratch his car etc.... I was sooooo mad ... Today I'm just sad... Should I confront him about it hoping that he finally come clean, confront her, or just plain simple go and bust his car out,????? I'm 36 years old, I want to b a lady about all this, but I'm so pissed at the fact that he can't come clean... I think he dosent want to divorce be for financial reasons, otherwise we would , we separated 3 weeks ago.... Pease help

I put my husband out of the house due to infidelity,a few days ago, now he saying that he will continue to pay my rent if I keep his teenager son that was living with us in the the house,

I'm thorn !!!

I can't stop asking his son about his father...and I also don't think is healthy for him to still live with me...

Living on my own will b a pain since money is an issue , I will need to get roommates, but I can't just sit and babysit while he is out there having the live.... Any advise ??? :-((

We are having problems and now he wants a separation . So I gave him until April to move out ( children r involve). I suspect He is having a fling with a co worker, (I saw some flirtatious emails). Now he is spending lot of time out of the house...

And extra long time inside the bathroom , with his phone and iPad... So I'm assuming that he is emailing back and forth w her ... As his wife do I still have the right to ask questions or not ?? I'm very angry at him... Cnt help to b rude ... It's that ok , or should I just ignore him until he leave ??? Any advise

We are having problems , I told him that either we work it out or separate, he rather separate, take a break from each other, taste the waters n see what happen... (bunch of bs to me)... but still want to live in the same house ... I can't handle that. I love him. And on top of all that , I found flirtatious emails between him and a coworker . Now his phone is blocked. An he refuse to unlock it. He said that I should base out relationship on how he treats me, not on what he have on his phone.( again bs)

I told him that he need to b out by April and he finally agreed , But I truly think his clothes wi b out b4 that... I Haven't done it bcus we both have 1 children from a prev relationship living in the house

And I don't have the heart to put his kid out in the street... They do have family that live near by though... Any advise on wether I should wait or not, also should I not b rude to him? I cnt help it... I'm so hurt... Any advise please ??

We have been married for 7 years

We are having problems , I told him that either we work it out or separate, he rather separate, take a break from each other, taste the waters n see what happen... (bunch of bs to me)... but still want to live in the same house ... I can't handle that. I love him. And on top of all that , I found flirtatious emails between him and a coworker . Now his phone is blocked. An he refuse to unlock it. He said that I should base out relationship on how he treats me, not on what he have on his phone.( again bs)

I told him that he need to b out by April and he finally agreed , But I truly think his clothes wi b out b4 that... I Haven't done it bcus we both have 1 children from a prev relationship living in the house

And I don't have the heart to put his kid out in the street... They do have family that live near by though... Any advise on wether I should wait or not, also should I not b rude to him? I cnt help it... I'm so hurt... Any advise please ??

We have been married for 7 years

We are having problems , I told him that either we work it out or separate, he rather separate, taste the waters n see what happen... (bunch of bs to me)... but still want to live in the same house ...

I can't handle that. I love him,..

So I left, I have been at my moms for 2 days now, l left without saying anything,

today he text me : I want you home ...

We have been married ( 7 years)

Is he sending mixed signals ???

Should he be the one to get out ??? I really don't want to leave my house... We got it together... Please help!!!