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My husband have a new friend... He says it innocent, but is it ?

We have been facing lil problems for years , I put him out because a month ago because I discover that he was having inappropriate communication. With some coworker, and that was the straw that broke the camels back. But of course I missed him, he came by a few time ( we had sex) until I finally let him in again, ( 7 yrs married ) anyways . I have been wanting to work in our relationship, but it seen like he dosent want to... The thing is that money is an issue hit him to start on his own . And so he is saying that he have to work it out.. HAVE TO. Emphasizing in his financial situation and a thennnnnn love . I love him dearly . I I know he is detached from me. And know he has this new Frienship that's filling out the gaps from my relationship w my husband... He said that I will meet get on me day, but not now because I'm not ready... He think I'm going to act up( since I'm jealous of her) so I feel like he want to stay in the relationship so that I can make the decision of ending it when we do not work out . That way he won't be held accountable for it ... Pretty much that I let him walk way without paying me $$$$$

He Love íntimacy with me , but say that there's something missing ... They both ride motorcycle..so they have bonded . Etc

Should I give my marriage a try . Or should I just let him walk way ??

I feel like I'm drowning :-(

She is married, so he says it's all inocent, I'm totally jealous. And heart broken ... Please help

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  • Anonymous
    7 years ago

    Let him go.

    1. He has cheated before, even if he isn't now, it's unforgiveable.

    2. He only seems to be with you because he can't support himself.

    3. He doesn't 'seem' to want to work on it, which probably means he doesn't want to work on it.

    4. You deserve better than someone who treats you so badly.

    Of course it will be hard for you, but you need to get out of this relationship before he cheats again, or he ends it first and possibly leaves you for someone else (sorry to say that). Leave with your pride and dignity in tact. You'll find someone new and you can be happy again.

    Goodluck.

  • 7 years ago

    Dear Liz Bianca,

    Let him go !

    You deserve better. The right man is out there that will love, cherish, respect, honor, and worship you as his queen. Make yourself socially available. Get the evidence on him and make him pay. Best wishes. I feel for you.

    Anthony

  • 7 years ago

    Okay sister listen up.

    Your husband is obviously cheating on you.

    Gather evidence of him cheating.

    Get a good lawyer.

    Sue his butt.

    You are not drowning at all things go wrong all the time its not your fault and you are not the only one

    who is facing such situation .You deserve better.

    You have a friend who is worried for you :(

  • 7 years ago

    He wouldn't like it if the tables were turnn around

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