My husband has been having an affair, off and on, with just one woman, for 15 years; Just found out and am devastated.?

I can imagine how you must feel. My ex husband cheated on me for 11 LONG yrs.!! How I KNOW the feelings of being cheated on. Mine didn't even attempt to hide it however, we both knew he was doing it. I finally divorced him when I found out that along with being an alcoholic, he also is a "womanizer" thru counselling, THAT ended our marriage. Honey, without a doubt, I would bring this up to him. Let him know you are fully aware of what he's been doing, what he IS doing. Find out the reason & what you're going to do about it. IF he says he's going to stop, without a doubt, I'd schedule counselling for you both. I've sure done my fair share of it over the yrs. Believe in it 100%. It DOES help regardless of the situation. But by all means, do let him know you know all about it & go from there as to what you're going to do...the best to you, honey...:)

I understand your devastation and maybe this is the time to re-evaluate your relationship. (not your marriage... Not just yet!) Is this what needed to happen so he can let go of this other lady? Or what needed to happen so he can move on with her. I like to believe that anything worth having in the first place is worth holding on to. Dont jump to rash decisions and leave him. Do what is best for you and your life. Maybe that does mean leaving him just take your time. Don't take it too personal. He has issues and at least you still have your integrity. Stay strong!

I am sorry that you find yourself in such a devastating situation, I am wondering if you had any signs or suspicions along the way before this. What is your question now,to us? I would ask you what you wish to do about this and whether you have confronted him, and how he has responded? Are there children involved? If you choose to write again, please ask for specific advice and I am sure you will receive a variety of responses. Best wishes, Dr.S

I am so very sorry for you. I don't know what to say.

My ex husband would cheat on me. That is why he is my ex.

But never with the same woman. If he loves her all you can do is

walk away.. I wish you the best.

Hun. My heart is broken for you if I'm honest. I can only imagine how u feel. There's nothing I could say to cheer u up but I wish u all the luck. And do what's best for you. I'm so sorry. You deserve so much better and kick him to the crub. I hope 2015 brings u happiness xxx

That home wrecker! how dare she do that to your family... you really know how to pick'm

how is that a question.

pork? why not beef?