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How to deal with jealousy?
I was talking to a female friend of mine, same as as me (18) and I really, really like her, but sadly she already has a boyfriend and she's not interested in me like that. Last night we were talking and I asked her about her evening and she said she'd spent it with her boyfriend (of 2-3 months), and in the middle of telling me what they did she said "and um lots of other fun stuff," and of course I know what that means. Basically, I just get extremely jealous that she is with, and has sex with, someone else, and I know I have no right to control her, and I don't want to. I only feel this way because of how strongly I feel and care about her. It also doesn't help that I'm a virgin who's only kissed a girl and she's had sex with two guys now. How do I deal with this?
And I should mention that she rarely ever talks about this with me because she knows how it affects me
2 Answers
- Anonymous6 years ago
all i can say is, If you truly believe that a man should get to be with the women he loves, and you truly want this for yourself and think its totally right a man should be with the women he loves and a women should be with the man she loves, then you should be happy that those two are together, because they are living out what you believe in and want for yourself some day, imagine if she chose you instead, you had been together for months and were sooo happy together, you loved it so effing much, and some guy who was her friend was crushing on her, was embracing his feelings to sleep with YOUR girl, to take your girl, you would feel so disrespected by that person and disgusted that he would not correct his feelings for something that is totally wrong, GREEDY and SELFISH! which is probably why fate did not allow her to fall into your hands, because of this selfishness, that;s just karma brother. Get over yourself, man up, and go find a lover for YOU, and let others dwell in peace.
- 6 years ago
I think you misunderstood, I'm not still trying to get with her, that would be selfish and disrespectful. But I can't help how I feel about her, I just want peace about that