Does it upset christians that atheists and gays have the same exact rituals for getting married than christians do?

This is what Christians don't understand:

Christmas, marriage, they are more like traditions than rituals. Christians say atheists shouldn't celebrate Christmas, but it's merely a tradition. Americans celebrate groundhog day, don't they? And yet they don't believe a groundhog can change the duration of winter, do they? Does that make them hypocrites? No. Because that is only a tradition. Same with Christmas, marriage.

Sorry that didn't really answer your question, but I wanted to say this cause so many Christians criticize atheists for celebrating Christmas, and marrying.

Rituals are not what matters here. What matters is that it is impossible for gay couples to ever have a true marriage. Marriage is about the cleaving of two people of the opposite sex, working out a life together where both the masculine and feminine qualities are at interplay. This creates a healthy enviroment both for themselves and for any children that come to grace the marriage. Some day people will figure this out and try to retract the gay marriage laws, especially when they finally realize that same sex marriage causes children to suffer.

Marriage is and always has been a matter of civil law! Whilst churches are allowed to carry out the service it must be in complete compliance with that law and any deviation or omission would make the marriage null and void and probably involve criminal offenses!

Nope. Can't make anybody obey or believe in God. Can't make anybody keep his commandments. I can only make sure that when it is up to me, I stand for my beliefs and keep the commandments of my God. They've decided to allow gay people to marry someone of the same sex and receive the benefits exclusive to a marriage. Oh well. Doesn't make it right, doesn't mean I have to support it.

Noting to be upset about, at least in the US. Marriage has been a state institution since the 19th century when states undertook to license and regulate the institution as a means to stop churches from performing interracial marriages. I regard it no differently than states issuing drivers licenses.

Well I can not speak for homosexuals but as an atheist why would I want your imaginary god to have anything to do with my wedding? I got married in a register office. No gods involved.

Will it upset you when grown children start marrying their parents in order to get their parents under health care coverage?

Ever looked up MARRIAGE? Etymology, meaning? So?

It does NOT mean two homosexuals. So first, they steal...GAY..ie. cheerful, beautiful, brightly colored, next marriage.

Seems THEY want to BE us.

Now marriage is fine for male + female..any.

Christians believe in HOLY ...MATRIMONY.

Yes, it SHOULD be different.

Civil marriages have always existed. Or have you just discovered that fact recently.

don't think that any of those "groups" will have anything to do with God in their so called "marriage" vows