Would you follow someone you turned down? Why is she? And should i contact her all?

Honestly? It seems like she's playing games right now.... i mean one minute she's not ready then the next she is following texting u etc... if deep inside she didn't want anything to do with u should would cut the contact trust me but to me it seems like she's playing games and was worried of being judged of having sex with u for the first night what so ever

It seems drama and a little off something isn't right

if someone wants to play games and not be straight with u then ur better off them thats a red flag

she might be great and nice and sex was awesome but i mean all these are red flags

she could also still be in love with her ex i mean the girl just broken up with her ex a month ago

Who knows only she can tell u and she did

But u need to show her that ur done so she can quit playing games with u

and if she wants u she will show some effort and if she does u need to tell her to stop and to be straight forward with you

If she doesn't then move on now really cuz u will only end up hurting urself

Good luck.

It seems she just isnt ready. Put yourself in her postition. It would be really hard! what I can suggest is always be there for her as she has it pretty rough right now. I would send her a message and say how you are there for her if she needs to talk and tell her you wont judge her and whatnot. Just honestly be there for her as a friend. Something might grow from that. She will soon realize you are a great person whom can be trusted. No matter what everything will work out whether you become a couple or not. Just when you message her say something like this "I dont want you to feel obligated to message me back saying everything thats wrong and all. I just thought I should let you know that I am always here no matter what. " I hope this helps! After that give her some space as a relationship like her previous one will be hard to heal from.

It honestly sounds like she's into you, but isn't ready for a relationship at the moment. From what you've said, she isn't in a good place, with a seemingly abusive ex and issues in her family, so she probably just needs time to figure herself out and see what she wants from life.

I wouldn't keep pushing to talk to her though, since it seems like she just needs space going through this rough patch. I know dozens of people who have been through rough situations due to family issues or life in general, and it REALLY takes a downward turn on their personal lives & relationships.

If she really cares about you, someday when she's ready, she'll reach out to you and see if you're still interested. I wouldn't hold your breath though, and for the time being, I'd move on. I think she needed someone to be there for her through this and that someone was you. What happens next really depends on how soon she overcomes her current situation. Good luck!

Man you young guys are unusually fast it once took me 6 1/2 years to get a woman I met online to trust me and have a steak dinner with me yet you meet the girl on snap chat the first time and have sex with her just like that.

Sounds like she's too raw from her broken relationship move on find someone else she's being straight with you she's not ready for a serious relationship don't read more into it than there is.

I don't think this girl is serious about pursuing a relationship with you. I think you hooked up too fast with her. Obviously it got you hooked and getting you desperate but she's not sharing the same thing. I'd remove her from snapchat, phone, etc. and move on. She just doesn't want to hurt your feelings. I would recommend against waiting out for her to be ready. You would be wasting your time.

I think you should contact her and just be straight forward and if she tells u that she's not interested then block her on snap chat and move on, sometimes we invest in the ones we like but they don't reciprocate it back to us so simply move on there's more out there and I'm sure you will find someone right for you. Good luck

Back burner. You aren't the number one guy she's interested in. How could you really expect her to prioritize someone she only snap chats? Play hard to get, but honestly this has happened to me and the guy hit it and quit it. He said he was "scared". So he either had another girl, was still in love with his ex, had only intentions of using me, or he was a commitaphobe. Either way I regret wasting time on him, and for you I'd say just don't make her your priority as this may not be the same story.

It's time to move on cause when a girl or boy turn you down it means they just using you for fun. They don't care about you while you have feelings for them. Just block her on snapchat and other social media internets or apps. She's not the one if she is she'll be crying for you to never leave her side. It's time to move on buddy.

Wish you good luck and have a nice day

just give her some time until she manages the stuff that are going on and uhhh .. keep of reminding her how u feel about her u guys are obviously compatible with each other so she will eventually get back to u i mean love is stronger than anything she'll get to see how u guys should be together she obviously has feelings for u too just give her time about 2 to 4 weeks til she'll manages her stuff it's gonna get better i promise okay ? i mean isn't it worth waiting since she's the girl of ur dreams ? :) best of luck

The best recourse for someone who rejected you is do nothing.

Social media has nothing to do with it and you overthinking will not fix anything. Just leave her to remember you on a positive note. Be kind to her and leave her the space she needs until she gets through with her problems.Wish her the best and leave her with kind words.

Keep yourself busy so atht you don't over think.

Since you guys had sex, I believe there was a connection there. Unfortunately, the timing is just not right. Best of luck.