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Lv 6

How to properly ask this girl out?

So i met this cute girl from my brothers girlfriend whom she works with. Were both 23. We met at a patio with friends and everyone hinting that we might be a good match, semi seriously but also jokingly.. we flirted and she laughed

So i slept on it, told brothers girlfriend to pass on my number. Ball is in her court. So she messages me and we have some lame conversation but obviously pretty friendly.

Weve been texting a bit back and forth but i am horrible at it. I know where she works (with brothers gf).. and thought about just grabbing some groceries and ask her out that way for either a sit down date or a double date with brother and gf.

Thoughts? Is showing up to her work putting unnecessary pressure on her?

I want to show my confidence and that im actually interested and a chill dude. Texting seems cliche and not thoughtful..

Thanks

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  • Pick up your phone and call her. Tell her you'd like to meet up after work for a drink. Meet up, have no more than 2 drinks, and call it a night. The whole point of this meetup is to see if there's chemistry and if you'd like to go out on another date with her (and if she would like to go out again with you).

  • 3 years ago

    Better seize the day homie! Text her and say "hey not trying to be to forward, but iI really want to take you on a date, what do you think?" Invite her over and cook her dinner. Or take her to the mall. The second date put your arm around her and don't be a *****, if this doesn't happen try to cross the touch barrier by any means necissary, grab her hand and tell her she has really pretty hands (women love that ****) then try to get awkwardly close and when you feel the tension, ask if you can kiss her. Low key works 100% of the time. Boom but dude move fast don't be the guy who's sitting here a week later like **** I missed my chance. Just go for it. You miss 100% of the shots you don't take and there are 100 million girls in china who don't know you exist.

  • Jane
    Lv 6
    3 years ago

    Lol seems fine if you can pull her to the side

  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    I don't see what's wrong with texting to ask her that. It puts less pressure on her and it'll be less awkward. I know it's not the best way, but you barely know her so I think text is the best option.

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  • Anonymous
    3 years ago

    dont go to her work unexpectedly. cant you ask her on the phone?

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