When your husband doesn't want or like pictures of you?

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My husband has never really been interested in pictures of me. If I send him a selfie, it's too fake and he's not interested and they get deleted (no I'm not fake looking but that's his view) alternately, he won't take photos of me at all. He takes photos of the children all the time, I take pictures of him with the children but the only pictures I have of me with my kids are selfies that I took. I took what I thought was a very pretty photo of myself today and instead of saying so, he said I looked sad, washed out and my lips looked weird. Hes never really complimented me come to think of it. Is he even attracted to me at all? Anyone else's husband do this?

What You Talkin&#39; About? · Accepted Answer

People are different.  I would not read too much into this. Lot's of men are not that good at being romantic or handing out compliments.  If he shows love in other ways then let it go.

Kari · Answer

He sounds like an abusive person if he gives you nasty comments a lot. And if he is a photographer as in got expensive gear.... well yea we photographers can be very judgemental on photographs but if its a spouse we are not saying stuff like that to them.

BeatriceBatten · Answer

He doesn't sound very nice. Why'd you marry him?

seedy history · Answer

My guy takes no photos of people ... hardly at all. Not on holidays or at gatherings or events. He takes lots of nature photos though. But not people. It's never occurred to me that it would have anything to do with whether or not he found me attractive. I think you're taking a big leap there. Surely there are other ways in which you can determine whether or not he finds you attractive besides how he reacts to photographs.

mmm · Answer

why don't you go get a make over? A new haircut and have someone do your make-up

he does not like the way you look - and he is trying not to hurt your feelings... but it is affecting your marriage

a Guy bein a Guy · Answer

You are married to a lout. That's all.
Next time he comes looking for the sexy time ask him why he would wish to have 
intimacy with someone he holds in such disregard.

Anonymous · Answer

Who knows

Good Man · Answer

He is out of those who do not like formalities in relation and take it as sex need for time pass . But , he can pass all life with u without any teasing and disrespect to u . What he is doing is his nature . Try to forget it and forgive him . He can never hyper loving but definitely hyper caring in time on need

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When your husband doesn't want or like pictures of you?

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